Discussion Your suicidal feelings overriding your love for someone

[ShinyScissors]

Does anyone else have a similar case?

 

[thrashisland]

I've been in a similar situation where I've realized that if you really are going to go for it, you're going to have to leave them as painful as it is because they will always be the one to interfere. I know it feels like its a block in your emotions but you have to choose between the two. I left the love of my life as I want him to move on before I ctb to save his feelings

 

[Unsure and Useless]

I've been in a similar scenario. Granted, I didn't break it off with them because I intended to CTB soon, but it was because I struggle with with depression and suicidal ideation. I'm aware that being a partner of someone with these issues can result in them becoming depressed and suicidal themselves, so I parted ways with them because I didn't want to burden them any longer.

 

[OutOfTheVoid]

yeah very much have experienced this too. even with my gf being aware and understanding, i still shutdown and feel an impulse to withdraw myself. i prolly come off very cold, and sometimes i feel that way too. im not sure entirely why. maybe im afraid to stay attached to people when i plan to leave them, maybe i feel guilty for it. im not sure anymore.

 

[Pidgeons_Sparrows]

Does anyone else have a similar case?

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man this is sad to read
luckily this is not a problem i will ever have to deal with because im too much of a garbage person to be loved like that lmao

 

[H.O.Xan]

man this is sad to read
luckily this is not a problem i will ever have to deal with because im too much of a garbage person to be loved like that lmao

Yh FR lmao. I kinda dropped my face when I read the attachment. I wonder if living a life so close to death has anything to do with the partner selection