you shouldnt care about your parents REMOTELY

[mehwhoknows]

I can't believe there's some people listing sadness from parents as a genuine deciding demotivating factor for ctb.

do you understand the crucial permanence of you coming into this world under your specific inferior circumstances (for one reason or another, no one is depressed for no logical point at all, whether its worse genetics with predisposition to mental disorders, financial circumstances, malformed shitty physical development, or any other reason you couldn't fully control when you shaped your current "life" or identity)

the reason you want to leave this earth is a direct testament to the garbage job your parents did, and it all relates to how far you deviated from what puts your body in a state of comfort, security, growth, and present living, an AUTHENTIC human/ordinary lifestyle away from technology, economy, law, diversity, forced social conformity, and basically enslavement of true will.

your parents brought injustice to you and your pathetic existence, it was in there hands to either avoid reproducing, or do it properly for appropriate homo sapien satisfaction

many of you are led by blind love, its almost like the trauma and vacancy their intended part in your life should've been fuels you to seek it that much more at the cost of your dignity, and fairness to what was harmful/bad/unethical

some will reply with "they did what they could, they tried their best" and what? what did their best efforts provide? if a serial r4pist tries his best to only brutalize adults instead of infants, what joy or pleasure did the victims receive?

you being birthed was the crime, you having improper crooked unnatural development was the curse you bear till death

if your suicidal, fuck your parents lmao, stop being such slaves to people who brought this sorrow into you. its hilarious reading people planning "suicide notes" or leaving "guilt for their mother's circumstances"

makes me think half of this forum isn't even serious about ending your brain and disrupting everything. its either ignorance, of superficial kindness

 

[ForgottenAgain]

There's no reason for this post to be this aggressive and targeted to the reader so much. Feels like projection. I'm sorry if you feel so negatively about your parents, doesn't mean others had the same experience. Don't insult the parents of people you know nothing about.

 

[mehwhoknows]

cope i MEANT EVERYONE who is away from nature. no matter what ur part is in society, this can be a rich slave, or one in dirt poor in a filthy slum

There's no reason for this post to be this aggressive and targeted to the reader so much. Feels like projection. I'm sorry if you feel so negatively about your parents, doesn't mean others had the same experience. Don't insult the parents of people you know nothing about.

 

[rozeske]

No no. We don't do that here.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I agree. What people here don't acknowledge is that the only reason why they're even alive to begin with is because of their parents. It's your parents that caused you to die since they gave you birth to begin with. It really is that simple. If it wasn't for my parents, I wouldn't be dealing with this atrocious and repulsive life. Ironically enough, the only reason why I'm still alive is because of my parents, not because I care about them but because they are super overprotective and won't let me do my own thing which means that I can't get SN. If I could get SN and the other drugs related to that, I definitely would have been gone by now without hesitating. I'm only alive because I can't access a way out of here

 

[Downdraft]

The post could use some re-writing to be more assertive.

But yeah, It's kinda like taking a hostage. Suicide usually hurts those around you, we know, it's an integral point of discussion and for suicide to be possible we have to accept it. One accepts risk when creating any life, yet when tables turn and life goes wrong parents are this super-protected group where suicide must be forbidden to protect them from the risk they wanted to proceed with. The general (though not all are like this) philosophy of parenting is about total ownership of life. Obviously there are good parents but there will always be bad chances on life even with the best.

When anyone says they don't wanna hurt loved ones it's understandable, it's hard for everyone, but that's the point of it, you make other's suffer so you don't have to. And as I said before, suicidal ideation is the culmination of thr biggest mental pain compared to even grief, (unless they are children of course), so living for others it's a pretty bad harm measurement.

Anyway the choice is up to the individual, suicide is very taxing process best used as a last alternative. This is not to say you should kys.

 

[hēĸsenko]

My friend, aggression will lead you nowhere and that's just feels like self-projection. Sorry, if this is your case.

Yeah, making someone sad with your death is, technically, is absolutely not a reason to keep your misery. But that purely depends on every person's experience, on every person's circumstances. Yes, your parents didn't ask, if you want to be born.

But your your parents and your environment, with rare exceptions, doesn't define you and your being. Almost always there are ways to live. So no need to blame anyone. It sucks, if your close one's aren't that good, but doesn't mean other people have this problem.

And, of course, we shouldn't forget, that everyone feels it differently. For many people social relations can be a serious reason to keep living. It's not good or bad. It just exists.

Has no intention to insult, It's up to you to think and feel in a specific way, but all this aggression feels like a simply pent up emotion or, maybe, immaturity. First one sucks, especially when there's noone to talk to. Second one, well, yeah.

 

[FlufflesAway]

it might be aggresively written, but i agree with it 100%