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noname223
Angelic
- Aug 18, 2020
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My psychologist told me "You can achieve everything you want as long as you are determined to do so",
When I told him I might buy a substance to kill me he told me with a empathetic/strong voice "don't do it". One time I tried partial in the clinic and the therapist told me (with empathy) more or less "life is precious but it is up to you what you are doing with it".
I know they mean it good. But these platitudes don't really work in my situation or make it worse. The sentence I can achieve everything I want is just not right. I gave 150% at work. I did everything I could with all the power I had. But I just collapsed within a week. No determination in the world could have changed that. With his depiction I rather feel guilty because I think maybe I was not determined enough.
For the last two examples I have to state the big problem psychiatry has is that they don't offer a peaceful way out. Not everybody can be helped suffiently. Some people have daily strong suicidal thoughts for years. Telling me life is precious won't change that fact. I know they mean good but society has to learn that pro-choice is the right way.
When I told him I might buy a substance to kill me he told me with a empathetic/strong voice "don't do it". One time I tried partial in the clinic and the therapist told me (with empathy) more or less "life is precious but it is up to you what you are doing with it".
I know they mean it good. But these platitudes don't really work in my situation or make it worse. The sentence I can achieve everything I want is just not right. I gave 150% at work. I did everything I could with all the power I had. But I just collapsed within a week. No determination in the world could have changed that. With his depiction I rather feel guilty because I think maybe I was not determined enough.
For the last two examples I have to state the big problem psychiatry has is that they don't offer a peaceful way out. Not everybody can be helped suffiently. Some people have daily strong suicidal thoughts for years. Telling me life is precious won't change that fact. I know they mean good but society has to learn that pro-choice is the right way.
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