that_guy2611
Student
- Mar 17, 2018
- 186
blah blah you've heard it all before. I'm an ugly male with no redeemable qualities. got no game or good looks. no interesting hobbies.
man i just want some validation and a bit of intimacy without hearing 'just b urself' or 'it's the inside that counts' or 'luv urself first' .
I see people who treat other's like shit and nobody ever says 'hey he treats others like shit but boy does he love himself and that's why I love him/attracted to him'.
also would be nice to state the obvious that nobody cares about us men without being called an incel or misogynist. I have nothing against women, i don't blame them for consistently not being interesting in me or people like myself. It's a market, and the poor goods doesn't get chosen. I can't consistently 'love myself' when it's clear that i'd be delusional in thinking there's anything to like. yeah i'm shy as fuck but let's not pretend shy people aren't in relationships. I fucking hate everything. just shy of being 30 years old i shouldn't be in this place, i should be getting married or living with a spouse/gf right now. man it hurts seeing a young coworker in her early 20's already getting married. wtf dude ? I mean good for her but damn I'm light years behind.
TL:DR don't read any of this shit I'm just in a bad place (always have been lol)
man i just want some validation and a bit of intimacy without hearing 'just b urself' or 'it's the inside that counts' or 'luv urself first' .
I see people who treat other's like shit and nobody ever says 'hey he treats others like shit but boy does he love himself and that's why I love him/attracted to him'.
also would be nice to state the obvious that nobody cares about us men without being called an incel or misogynist. I have nothing against women, i don't blame them for consistently not being interesting in me or people like myself. It's a market, and the poor goods doesn't get chosen. I can't consistently 'love myself' when it's clear that i'd be delusional in thinking there's anything to like. yeah i'm shy as fuck but let's not pretend shy people aren't in relationships. I fucking hate everything. just shy of being 30 years old i shouldn't be in this place, i should be getting married or living with a spouse/gf right now. man it hurts seeing a young coworker in her early 20's already getting married. wtf dude ? I mean good for her but damn I'm light years behind.
TL:DR don't read any of this shit I'm just in a bad place (always have been lol)