Addy

Addy

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Oct 11, 2025
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I need help writing a note. I feel like my brains fried. I cant barely think anymore. So please if somebody can give me ideas on topics i should include or how to start it.
 
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Realog11

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Dec 4, 2025
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I need help writing a note. I feel like my brains fried. I cant barely think anymore. So please if somebody can give me ideas on topics i should include or how to start it.
Just write about how it been a great life but circumstances made you do this
 
Sphinxi

Sphinxi

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Jan 4, 2026
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No matter what you write, your mom will probably fret and cry over this for the rest of her life. Make sure to emphasize that she isn't to blame, etc. If you have any specific questions please let me know, as I have experience with suicide bereavement
 
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VitriolLD

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Dec 19, 2025
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I don't think you should rationalize the cause of your death, because sometimes people from outside the suicide community have a hard time understanding it. Instead, highlight moments in your life with your mother which you feel are important, some things worth noting.

Because in 10, 20, 30 years when you pass and if she is still alive, she will still remember that note and perhaps at that moment, what would be nice is positive memories, not negative
 
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e!kent

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Dec 25, 2025
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I need help writing a note. I feel like my brains fried. I cant barely think anymore. So please if somebody can give me ideas on topics i should include or how to start it.

 
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dalemar

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Nov 20, 2025
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I am writing mine.
This is so hard.
If she was a good mother, stress that a lot, make it very clear.
And also be super clear about your reasons for CTB, and if they are not linked to her, make that clear as well.
Thank her for all the good memories and love, and tell her we will end the same way (dead) so maybe there is a chance to be together again.
Those are some of the things I am putting in mine.
 
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