Would you ctb on birthday of your child?

[needaplan]

???

 

[carlee]

That'd be horrible.

 

[needaplan]

s.o. did it and I wonder what the person thought

 

[WornOutLife]

No way. That would be really mean.

 

[Loser47]

If I have a child I won't CTB at all, bringing a kid into this world then leaving them like this, that's just not right

 

[needaplan]

If I have a child I won't CTB at all, bringing a kid into this world then leaving them like this, that's just not right

I guess it will have an unknown impact

 

[sadworld]

I would probably never ctb if I had a child. That's also one of the reasons why I'd rather not have one.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I would never bring an innocent soul into this meatgrinder moshpit. But if I had a kid I would at least take them out humanely before offing myself.

 

[Blue Rose]

No, Never. I have no children, but I can imagine my pitiful children who must endure their extreme agony until their death.

it would be ridiculous or two-faced someone. But I think. As a pro-choicer or mild & passive pro-mortalist, we should not break 'the minimum rules' in our life.

Our right and liberty are dignified. AND those who are pro-lifer and those who are not pro-choicer have their dignified right and liberty. We should not trample over them.

 

[needaplan]

I would never bring an innocent soul into this meatgrinder moshpit. But if I had a kid I would at least take them out humanely before offing myself.

"take them out humanely" what does that even mean? oO

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

"take them out humanely" what does that even mean? oO

Whatever you want it to mean :) Most likely "take them outside" before I kill myself.

 

[needaplan]

I just hope the remaining family members are not miserable after that,
someone wrote that the timing might have been the point and that the person just had the mood and opportunity to do it that day

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I just hope the remaining family members are not miserable after that,
someone wrote that the timing might have been the point and that the person just had the mood and opportunity to do it that day

It would be a birthday to remember, definitely.

 

[Misfit72]

Absolutely not. I considered ending my life on the anniversary of my mother's death, but after my eldest niece was born, almost to the day, I decided against that as it would hurt her - she's only eight now. If I couldn't do it to my niece, I couldn't do it to my daughter.

 

[awfullife]

Friendly reminder not all of us on here have been suicidal / had awful existences our whole life. When I had kids my life was amazing. Fast forward 10 years and now it's time to CTB.

 

[sorella santini]

I would never ever even think about doing that. They are the only things keeping me alive right now..

 

[olieolieoxenfree]

I don't believe in morals too much, but that's f'ed up. Lol

 

[UselessMF]

I would never ever even think about doing that. They are the only things keeping me alive right now..

Same thing here, constant fight in my mind between my love for them and my desire to end it all.

Friendly reminder not all of us on here have been suicidal / had awful existences our whole life. When I had kids my life was amazing. Fast forward 10 years and now it's time to CTB.

Exactly and to add to your comment is it more moral for a young person to ctb and leave parents and family behind or a parent ctb leaving is child behind ? Thats a question that no one have the real answer since moral is not the same for everyone.

 

[imsorrythatimhere]

If I had a kid I'd never CTB. Leaving a child like that is horrible. (Unless I was that shitty of a parent and could somehow ensure that the kid would be happier without me)

 

[UselessMF]

IF I had a kid I'd never CTB

Almost everybody that have that opinion actually dont have kids. No offense but depression and desire to ctb are not planned years before. Sometimes it's hard to understand others realty.

I agree that every dad or mom should keep fighting for the love of their children but sometimes mental illness is too much overwhelming and you enter some kind of a tunnel vision that no reasons are enough to keep you alive.

 

[Shades of Grey]

I've been suicidal since early childhood, and have always felt strongly that if I were to choose to have kids, I would also be choosing not to end my life prematurely... particularly while they're young.

I understand that not everyone shares my feelings on this, but ending your life on a child's birthday sends some truly awful messages and would most likely maximize the trauma experienced by that individual. It's a no from me.

 

[Throwmyselfaway]

No I wouldn't. I'm trying to avoid birthdays in general.

 

[W’ren]

I have no children- but i am not going to ctb on anyone's birthday, (in my immediate family) out of respect- even though i was not always shown the respect i should have been shown by certain people...

The way i see it is if one can't avoid birthdays out of love, then at least avoid them out of respect.

Don't mar someone's day of celebration.

But that's my opinion, i understand that others may be seeking to get the person's attention and ctb on their birthday on purpose to cause grief or to prove a point... or to send a message.

 

[UseItOrLoseIt]

You have 364 more days in a year. I don't know what kind of agenda would I have to have to select that particular day and ruin my childs birthday forever. Nah, if you want your own special day, pick your own special day. Don't hijack some other persons birthday. Do it on your own birthday. That seems more appropriate.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

I'm wondering if this is a trick question... like, - if someone answers that they wouldn't even consider ctb on their child's birth date, then why would they even ctb if they HAVE a child?
I can't think of any reason why you would ask this question OP?

I would never bring an innocent soul into this meatgrinder moshpit. But if I had a kid I would at least take them out humanely before offing myself.

Sometimes, and dare I say it, quite often, you say the most ridiculous things!

If I had a kid I'd never CTB. Leaving a child like that is horrible. (Unless I was that shitty of a parent and could somehow ensure that the kid would be happier without me)

Are you suggesting that you believe that every single member of SS, don't have children?

Whatever you want it to mean :) Most likely "take them outside" before I kill myself.

But that isn't what you meant, is it.

 

[DetachedDreamer97]

Now... I may be a selfish... but this is where I draw the line. It would really fuck things up for the child to have his birthday be associated with a relative's death... let alone if that relative is their parent. It'll be like a bad omen. I can only imagine the child would probably be blamed by grieving family members. The words that'll echo in his head is "YOU SHOULD HAVE DIED!"

 

[x~Sophia~x]

Now... I may be a selfish... but this is where I draw the line. It would really fuck things up for the child to have his birthday be associated with a relative's death... let alone if that relative is their parent. It'll be like a bad omen. I can only imagine the child would probably be blamed by grieving family members. The words that'll echo in his head is "YOU SHOULD HAVE DIED!"

Hmm, I don't think OP meant 'would you ctb on the day that your child is born', moreso the anniversary of their child's birth.

 

[saltshaker]

If i had a kid and i really hated them maybe. Weird question tbh.

 

[DetachedDreamer97]

Hmm, I don't think OP meant 'would you ctb on the day that your child is born', moreso the anniversary of their child's birth.

I know that part... Though either way, it's still about as bad, if not worse.

 

[StuckAF]

???

Kasia lehnhardt did that :(