Women Would You Rather Date A Man With A Micropenis Or A Trans Woman With A Vagina from Surgery?

[Marine]

So it's not inappropriate to make multiple threads about your dick? At least keep things within the one topic.

I was thinking the same thing until I realized they're not the same person Dick dysmorphia was the topic of the day on the forum today.
I'm dead lol. At least some funny things happen sometimes on here, that cant be bad.

 

[ColorlessTrees]

I'm not trying to be rude, but a poll on a suicide forum isn't reflective of the real world, for one. Another similar answer probably won't help, but honestly…

Most women are heterosexual, so transitioning for this reason would be asinine. Your dating pool as a trans woman would still only be limited to lesbian and bisexual women, and that's already a tiny percent if the population. There are a lot of those women who still wouldn't date you even after a full transition, which would take years of work and money to accomplish properly assuming you want surgery. All for an identity you don't want that would make life harder in every regard.

Your life may suck now, but this would only make things worse in the long run, and it's not the way to get a romantic relationship. It would decrease your chances wildly if anything.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I'm not trying to be rude, but a poll on a suicide forum isn't reflective of the real world, for one. Another similar answer probably won't help, but honestly…

Most women are heterosexual, so transitioning for this reason would be asinine. Your dating pool as a trans woman would still only be limited to lesbian and bisexual women, and that's already a tiny percent if the population. There are a lot of those women who still wouldn't date you even after a full transition, which would take years of work and money to accomplish properly assuming you want surgery. All for an identity you don't want that would make life harder in every regard.

Your life may suck now, but this would only make things worse in the long run, and it's not the way to get a romantic relationship. It would decrease your chances wildly if anything.

thank you for your honesty

I was thinking the same thing until I realized they're not the same person Dick dysmorphia was the topic of the day on the forum today.
I'm dead lol. At least some funny things happen sometimes on here, that cant be bad.

its not funny dont laugh we didnt choose it.

 

[Marine]

thank you for your honesty

its not funny dont laugh we didnt choose it.

I'm not laughing at your issue at all, don't get it wrong. I would never mock someone for their insecurities, I know better having a ton of insecurities myself. You can see on the other thread that for women like me this is a non issue and nothing to discriminate against. I'm laughing about the fact that we're discussing that kind of thing on a suicide forum, because it's kind of a contrast, certainly unusual at least. I'm sorry if you misunderstood it.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I'm not laughing at your issue at all, don't get it wrong. I would never mock someone for their insecurities, I know better having a ton of insecurities myself. You can see on the other thread that for women like me this is a non issue and nothing to discriminate against. I'm laughing about the fact that we're discussing that kind of thing on a suicide forum, because it's kind of a contrast, certainly unusual at least. I'm sorry if you misunderstood it.

ok sorry for the misunderstanding.

yes this is a very hurtful issue for men so it is bond to come up in multiple men.

imagine being rejected all your life, being bullied, being mocked, getting nicknamed eunuch , being laughed at in group chats where a woman u trusted told all her friends , feeling never enough, feeling youd never be loved, feeling barren as a man, actually hearing a woman say they never see you as a man because of it.

 

[Marine]

ok sorry for the misunderstanding.

yes this is a very hurtful issue for men so it is bond to come up in multiple men.

imagine being rejected all your life, being bullied, being mocked, getting nicknamed eunuch , being laughed at in group chats where a woman u trusted told all her friends , feeling never enough, feeling youd never be loved, feeling barren as a man, actually hearing a woman say they never see you as a man because of it.

People can be truly disgusting I know that very well. But I'm going to quote myself if I have to : Sometimes it's better for really tight people. And most (decent, there's always idiots out there unfortunately) women just don't care or look at that kind of thing because that's not what really matters. At least I don't. Now if it's really an abnormal case there's got to be ways to enlarge it, trans men have similar procedures I believe, they don't always get traditional surgery so it could be helpful to look into it if your dysmorphia is very handicaping. There's got to be professionals and / or communities who can help.

I know first hand what it's like to be bullied, mocked, rejected and made to feel unloveable unfortunately as that's my main issue and reason to be suicidal. It can be because of anything really. I didn't have any particular physical flaw but trauma is another excuse for morons. People with an inferiority complex will litterally latch onto anything to make themselves feel superior. As soon as they feel that you're insecure they will make use of that. Those people just deserve to be left alone. People worth frequenting will never make fun of you nor discriminate you, they will always show you compassion and support.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I know first hand what it's like to be bullied, mocked, rejected and unloveable unfortunately as that's my main issue and reason to be suicidal.

im sorry, why do you think youre unloveable?

 

[Sibyl Vane]

imagine being rejected all your life, being bullied, being mocked, getting nicknamed eunuch , being laughed at in group chats where a woman u trusted told all her friends , feeling never enough, feeling youd never be loved, feeling barren as a man, actually hearing a woman say they never see you as a man because of it.

And how having an actual vagina would help with anything? It would only solidify those comments and make things worse for you.

 

[Marine]

im sorry, why do you think youre unloveable?

I don't. At least not consciously. People just have treated me that way all my life. Starting with my abusive non family all the way to my non relationships, that's a common pattern because it makes one vulnerable to predators and disconnected in general and that further reinforces trauma. Developmental trauma does that. It's like a stupid curse that can only be broken by love... And work on oneself.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I don't. At least not consciously. People just have treated me that way all my life. Starting with my abusive non family all the way to my non relationships, that's a common pattern because it makes one vulnerable to predators and disconnected in general and that further reinforces trauma. Developmental trauma does that. It's like a stupid curse that can only be broken by love... And work on oneself.

im sorry you been through that , i hope you one day find peace and happiness.

And how having an actual vagina would help with anything? It would only solidify those comments and make things worse for you.

If I'm trans and my booty big, my titties done - they can hate all they want, I'm still getting it because the body looks how I want to look.

A micro penis is a undefendable trait, society mocks you unanimously the rejection is so high that men with micros don't date who they want, they date who accepts them and while it might be the same for trans people, it's not as ingrained, it all depends on how well you pass. A micro penis has a very predictable outcome

the mocking of trans people is considered a ''hate crime'', it's considered wrong and attacked.

I also just want to not care about my penis anymore where it doesnt matter anymore .

 

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[whatevs]

I was thinking the same thing until I realized they're not the same person Dick dysmorphia was the topic of the day on the forum today.
I'm dead lol. At least some funny things happen sometimes on here, that cant be bad.

Now we need some thread about women lamenting their flat buttocks or small bust to balance things out.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Now we need some thread about women lamenting their flat buttocks or small bust to balance things out.

whos the guy in your profile pic i always admire him when i see your profile, he seems like a distinguished gentleman

 

[whatevs]

whos the guy in your profile pic i always admire him when i see your profile, he seems like a distinguished gentleman

Surely a man to be revered and looked up to, no one else than Bill Gates! The man that created the Operating System to control them all, one of the favorite creeps of the Dark Lord! Not like that lousy nerd, Linus Torvalds... In my pfp he is graciously sipping from water made from human excrement.

 

[Marine]

Now we need some thread about women lamenting their flat buttocks or small bust to balance things out.

I was about to make the joke about how I should be lamenting my small chest rofl. Some guys like it so it's fine ^^ If I get skinnier it'll show more too lol

This topic is getting out of hand. (partially my fault I recognize, sorry about that)

I've always thought we needed a silly subforum though. It could do a lot of good here.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Surely a man to be revered and looked up to, no one else than Bill Gates! The man that created the Operating System to control them all, one of the favorite creeps of the Dark Lord! Not like that lousy nerd, Linus Torvalds... In my pfp he is graciously sipping from water made from human excrement.

wow i didnt even recognize him he looks so different there

 

[Marine]

Surely a man to be revered and looked up to, no one else than Bill Gates! The man that created the Operating System to control them all, one of the favorite creeps of the Dark Lord! Not like that lousy nerd, Linus Torvalds... In my pfp he is graciously sipping from water made from human excrement.

The greatest sith of all lol. That profil pic always cracks me up.

 

[Sibyl Vane]

If I'm trans and my booty big, my titties done - they can hate all they want, I'm still getting it because the body looks how I want to look.

A micro penis is a undefendable trait, society mocks you unanimously the rejection is so high that men with micros don't date who they want, they date who accepts them and while it might be the same for trans people, it's not as ingrained, it all depends on how well you pass. A micro penis has a very predictable outcome

the mocking of trans people is considered a ''hate crime'', it's considered wrong and attacked.

I also just want to not care about my penis anymore where it doesnt matter anymore .

I'm sorry, but all of this makes no sense to me. From what I can gather thus far, you don't have issues with the gender you are born with; it all comes down to the size of your penis, correct? So, I cannot understand how having a sex reassignment surgery would make anything better; quite the opposite. Just imagine having to look at yourself in the mirror every day and find staring right back at you a version of yourself in a gender you don't identify with; it seems to be the worst type of hell to live in than the one you are already living, that's truly what you want? If you're looking to attract more female interest, I reassure you that's a terrible idea. I would much prefer to have a man with a micropenis than one that looks like a woman and has a vagina.

 

[whatevs]

I'm sorry, but all of this makes no sense to me. From what I can gather thus far, you don't have issues with the gender you are born with; it all comes down to the size of your penis, correct? So, I cannot understand how having a sex reassignment surgery would make anything better; quite the opposite. Just imagine having to look at yourself in the mirror every day and find staring right back at you a version of yourself in a gender you don't identify with; it seems to be the worst type of hell to live in than the one you are already living, that's truly what you want? If you're looking to attract more female interest, I reassure you that's a terrible idea. I would much prefer to have a man with a micropenis than one that looks like a woman and has a vagina.

Not to mention how hard is to actually look like the opposite gender for most people.

 

[odradek]

Why do you think this is a good idea? Have you ever met or spoken to a trans person in real life?

The doctors won't approve gender transition surgery if you go in and tell them you want to transition to pick up women fyi. I'm sorry your in this situation dude but these posts seem like a troll.

 

[etchings]

I'm just confused as to why this is even a discussion. If she's a woman, she's a woman. If she has a vagina, why should anyone care if she had to pay for it or not?
Maybe I'm misinterpreting, but either way, I have seen enough slander on the trans community.