Venting Why is it so hard for people to accept that some people were meant to live a bad life?

[LastDayOnEarth]

Why do they always try to gaslight people and give them false hope when they know their situation is beyond repair?.

I wish people would just be honest and tell you to your face that you're messed up and nothing will get better for you.

I believe a lot of it might be the brainwashing of religion, the toxic positivity of it. That's why I backed away from Christianity even though I was raised religiously. Haven't set foot on a church in 10 years.

 

[FuneralCry]

I understand, I see toxic positivity as so insensitive, it just invalidates the cruelty and suffering of this futile, torturous existence and it's so terrible and dreadful to me how there's all this suffering in existing, I see it as extreme cruelty how there is no acceptance towards the right to die even know there is no limit as to how much one can suffer in this existence that was imposed in the first place.

 

[Hvergelmir]

Why do they always try to gaslight people and give them false hope when they know their situation is beyond repair?.

Because people who actively try to improve their situation do much better than those who don't.
Submitting to poor circumstances tend to exacerbate suffering.

Probability is largely irrelevant. Even when odds are poor, unlikely things do happen occasionally. By giving up, one tend to miss such chances.