Why do i only meet lesbian women as a man.

[Shiitake]

it used to piss me off, but holy fuck, it feels like the truman show, my gf of 1 year said she was a lesbian,
the fucking girl i spoke to in internet was lesbian, like i have talked to 3 people extra who confessed to being lesbian,
a girl i dated 3 times and spoke to and we cuddled said shes lesbian.
IM A GUY!
is it some sort of fuckery of me being like this box where you can put your secrets inside and theyre safe?
bruh.
at this point its just fascinating.
also my sister is a lesbian, and all of her friends are lesbians.
and back in school lesbians did weird shit in school

 

[Tautochrome]

Huh, it is quite a set of coincidences. I can't speculate much without sounding offensive. Maybe you live in a country where people are more comfortable with their sexuality, or there's a kind of confirmation bias. Have you dated anyone who didn't come out as a lesbian later?

 

[Shiitake]

Huh, it is quite a set of coincidences. I can't speculate much without sounding offensive. Maybe you live in a country where people are more comfortable with their sexuality, or there's a kind of confirmation bias. Have you dated anyone who didn't come out as a lesbian later?

nah i just think im soft spoken, and never try anything sexual, so i kinda become this guy where theyre comfortable and secretely try if theyre lesbians or not bahahahahhaha, ive given up on women, infact i just feel asexual

 

[Dejected 55]

Your sister being a lesbian and having lots of lesbian friends isn't so much coincidence as it is birds of a feather. I don't know many gay men, but the ones I have known knew lots of gay men... you're going to kind of seek out people who are similar to you even if it isn't for dating purposes.

So, if you meet a lot of women through your sister, odds would be in favor of them being lesbians too... outside of that, who knows. Do you know all the women you dated were lesbians or did they just say that as part of the break-up? I mean, if they were lesbians, why were they dating you? That seems confusing. Maybe they were bi-sexual?

 

[Shiitake]

durrYour sister being a lesbian and having lots of lesbian friends isn't so much coincidence as it is birds of a feather. I don't know many gay men, but the ones I have known knew lots of gay men... you're going to kind of seek out people who are similar to you even if it isn't for dating purposes.

So, if you meet a lot of women through your sister, odds would be in favor of them being lesbians too... outside of that, who knows. Do you know all the women you dated were lesbians or did they just say that as part of the break-up? I mean, if they were lesbians, why were they dating you? That seems confusing. Maybe they were bi-sexual?

DUUURRRRRRRRR HUMMM DURRR
BOING BOING

yeah dude just so happens my girlfriend of 1 year is a lesbian,
my talking stage nr.1 is a lesbian
the girl i go on 4 dates with is a lesbian
every signle one is a fucking lesbian
i swear to god, i pray to almighty i wake up with extreme schizofrenia that there are monsters in my fucking walll anything is better than this reality
and im balding

 

[grapefruit04]

That sounds very frustrating, I'm sorry to hear. It seems that those women were comfortable enough around you to reveal something like that about themselves to you. It's not because something is wrong with you, you just can't really know how people feel sometimes. If you do decide to try dating again I hope you find a woman who loves you for who you are and not just the space you provide

 

[Shiitake]

That sounds very frustrating, I'm sorry to hear. It seems that those women were comfortable enough around you to reveal something like that about themselves to you. It's not because something is wrong with you, you just can't really know how people feel sometimes. If you do decide to try dating again I hope you find a woman who loves you for who you are and not just the space you provide

i think its just the fundamental human psychology, i fill a void and im forgotten when that void is filled by someone else, like a perpetual cuck, im thankful tho cuz that department is completely shut down in my brain
thanks for the wise words

 

[Tautochrome]

nah i just think im soft spoken, and never try anything sexual, so i kinda become this guy where theyre comfortable and secretely try if theyre lesbians or not bahahahahhaha, ive given up on women, infact i just feel asexual

Isn't that perfect? Become a monk

 

[Parnate]

I am a gay man . My family is pressuring me to get married and I am searching for a lesbian so we can have a lavender marriage.

 

[Shiitake]

I am a gay man . My family is pressuring me to get married and I am searching for a lesbian so we can have a lavender marriage.

lmaooo dude, i lowkey had a lavender relationship too,
but bro if they try to force you to something that weird they sont reapect u

 

[tunnelV]

Gen z? Aren't they 30% more LGBT or something.

 

[L.D.50]

i think i can relate? all of my friends are gay men... im a girl.
i don't really know why, it just happens, its like im a magnet to them.
they're not like, stereotypical gays either you know, just, dudes. who like it in the butt. i too, am fascinated by this phenomenon.
i literally only have gay dudes as friends. i wish i had more girls as friends but at last, i am cursed to be the gay dudes best friend for the rest of my life i suppose.