Why do family members get angry if you kill your self?

[Weebster]

Is it because they believe they own you?

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Because they are in denial about your suffering being too much to live through.

Sometimes denial is the safest place to be.

 

[Weebster]

Because they are in denial about your suffering being too much to live through.

Sometimes denial is the safest place to be.

I don't see how that would lead to anger.

 

[befree]

They don´t wanna lose you and they do not understand your thoughts and emotions.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I don't see how that would lead to anger.

It would lead to anger because to them you made a dumb decision.

 

[lifecouldbedream]

It is a traumatic experience to lose a child. (In the majority of circumstances, even if they were poor parents.) A very common response to this level of trauma is to get extremely angry and frustrated.

 

[Weebster]

They don´t wanna lose you and they do not understand your thoughts and emotions.

One can only lose a belonging, so we're comparable to stuff to these people?

 

[sharky]

Because they care and sadness and anger are a natural response to a loved ones death. Because they don't understand and think that you did a stupid thing.

 

[Weebster]

It is a traumatic experience to lose a child. (In the majority of circumstances, even if they were poor parents.) A very common response to this level of trauma is to get extremely angry and frustrated.

Good

It would lead to anger because to them you made a dumb decision.

Well fuck them lol

Because they care and sadness and anger are a natural response to a loved ones death. Because they don't understand and think that you did a stupid thing.

I would only get angry if someone I cared about was killed by another. Their arrogance in thinking they know what's best depletes any sympathy I could have for them.

 

[DPJ187]

They are angry because they feel the person should always ask for help. It's a common misconception that people who CTB just didn't know the other options. Its not true, I think that most of us who feel we should CTB have infact looked into every option. It's just a way of them trying to feel better

 

[Weebster]

They are angry because they feel the person should always ask for help. It's a common misconception that people who CTB just didn't know the other options. Its not true, I think that most of us who feel we should CTB have infact looked into every option. It's just a way of them trying to feel better

The nice thing about death is i'll never have to see them again.
Could the anger stem partially from jealousy? They still have to live in this shit world with their SI

 

[needforvoid_]

They think you're spoiled, you should've done better and now you've caused suffering to their loved ones. They blame you, they're the victim.
They can be angry at themselves, thinking they could've done more, they blame themselves, you're the victim.
They could be angry at some third person as well I guess. Example: fixthe26

 

[eLdus]

Anger is one of the five stages of grief.

 

[FuneralCry]

Maybe because they think that something could have been done to prevent it. Non suicidal people will never be able to understand what suicidal people go through as they are not suicidal themselves. Many non suicidal people view suicide as always being irrational and are in denial of the fact that things can get that hopeless that someone would feel the need to ctb. I think that often people get angry when they wish that things turned out differently.

 

[GreenTree]

They love us and can't understand the depth of our pain. Who would understand how painful life can be unless you have these feelings.

 

[TJuk]

They don't understand why people do it, they wish that you'd told them as they think they could have "fixed" whatever caused the urges to die. They don't have answers to what ifs they may have been left with. Probably also the stigma of suicide maybe leads to them feeling unable to talk about you and the life you once had or they think you could have.

 

[Klo]

Is it because they believe they own you?

I think that is part of it. If you have a contentious relationship they might not want to think of how their actions affected you. Also some are just selfish. I am estranged from my family but they expect me to live even though they add nothing to my life. I think they just don't want to think about it.

 

[Trjan]

I don't believe the anger would come from hatred - but more anger at the sadness of what has happened and wishing you had spoken to them. I can't stand the thought of the impact of what I intend on doing will do to my them.

 

[Weebster]

I don't believe the anger would come from hatred - but more anger at the sadness of what has happened and wishing you had spoken to them. I can't stand the thought of the impact of what I intend on doing will do to my them.

I'm thankful that trillions of years will go by and I still won't have to explain myself.