We can't all view things through the same lens since we haven't walked in each other's shoes. Instead, we must learn to live with our differences and stop trying to impose our opinions on others.
We just want everyone to be respectful. Thus, no one has to approve of our personal choices. Instead of attacking each other, people should respect boundaries.
This is what is happening: people feel they have the authority to tell you how to think. They go beyond their communities to inflict fear and cancel members of other groups who have no common ground with them.