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synthcadia
dissociated angel.
- Jul 8, 2023
- 224
i feel like i just fucking spiraled tonight, and i hate it.
it all started when i was sort of arguing with someone when i was tipsy and this person mentioned that people thought i liked my friend, when that is not the case. i have a partner that i love so much that it would kill me if they left. this devolved and it came down to me being "too friendly" and i need to be "less friendly" to respect my partner's boundaries.
first this angered me. my partner and i do not have such restricting boundaries. i am pretty sure i am autistic which is why i didn't pick up on that but also my partner trusts me, and my intentions were platonic. apparently like a week when i joined this discord server my friend wasn't sure if i was flirting or nice, but then he said that i was just very very nice, and we've been chill. and like i said i had a partner, and i didn't even notice anything, just like very friendly people.
so when i heard this being said, i was like "well should i be cold and distant then?" because i have no fucking idea how to not be me. i just am myself, and that makes me hate myself. i fucking cried over this tonight and doing so right now lol.
i texted my partner in anxiety and i am pretty sure we are ok but i am so scared they will leave on the drop of a hat, though logically i know that wouldn't happen. the anxiety man LOL. it's killing me. i feel like my whole world has come undone and everyone will leave me, and i will go through the pain of friendship and loss AGAIN.
i talked to my friend and he said i was fine, and other people are fine with me too and didn't think i gave off signals. i just felt safe with this friend, we just vibed. anyway, we talked it out and he was fine, and he said i did nothing wrong.
i just feel so bad bc lately i've been a mess, and i'm trying to work it out. but this evening made everything worse. i just fucking hate myself. i hate myself for being this nice, nice to the point where it kills me and hurts me and makes me want to ctb. i hate being autistic and having a slew of issues. i hate being me. i want to be societally normal, where this issue doesn't happen.
this person got in my head. i just hate myself. i want to ctb but i don't. i thought about cutting but i am more worried about getting in trouble than the act itself.
i hate myself. so much. and i don't know what to do.
time to sleep until who knows when. i'm tired of this. i'm tired of misconceptions, of misunderstandings, and losing friends or making things awkward. i feel like i'm on fragile ground where i beg for my life for people to not leave. im tired.
praying that everything turns out ok and it was ok to trust my friend.
it all started when i was sort of arguing with someone when i was tipsy and this person mentioned that people thought i liked my friend, when that is not the case. i have a partner that i love so much that it would kill me if they left. this devolved and it came down to me being "too friendly" and i need to be "less friendly" to respect my partner's boundaries.
first this angered me. my partner and i do not have such restricting boundaries. i am pretty sure i am autistic which is why i didn't pick up on that but also my partner trusts me, and my intentions were platonic. apparently like a week when i joined this discord server my friend wasn't sure if i was flirting or nice, but then he said that i was just very very nice, and we've been chill. and like i said i had a partner, and i didn't even notice anything, just like very friendly people.
so when i heard this being said, i was like "well should i be cold and distant then?" because i have no fucking idea how to not be me. i just am myself, and that makes me hate myself. i fucking cried over this tonight and doing so right now lol.
i texted my partner in anxiety and i am pretty sure we are ok but i am so scared they will leave on the drop of a hat, though logically i know that wouldn't happen. the anxiety man LOL. it's killing me. i feel like my whole world has come undone and everyone will leave me, and i will go through the pain of friendship and loss AGAIN.
i talked to my friend and he said i was fine, and other people are fine with me too and didn't think i gave off signals. i just felt safe with this friend, we just vibed. anyway, we talked it out and he was fine, and he said i did nothing wrong.
i just feel so bad bc lately i've been a mess, and i'm trying to work it out. but this evening made everything worse. i just fucking hate myself. i hate myself for being this nice, nice to the point where it kills me and hurts me and makes me want to ctb. i hate being autistic and having a slew of issues. i hate being me. i want to be societally normal, where this issue doesn't happen.
this person got in my head. i just hate myself. i want to ctb but i don't. i thought about cutting but i am more worried about getting in trouble than the act itself.
i hate myself. so much. and i don't know what to do.
time to sleep until who knows when. i'm tired of this. i'm tired of misconceptions, of misunderstandings, and losing friends or making things awkward. i feel like i'm on fragile ground where i beg for my life for people to not leave. im tired.
praying that everything turns out ok and it was ok to trust my friend.