theanswer, but just to get this off my chest because its' killing me and was very gutwrenching- we had been chatting and everything was fine.-- we had hit it off. Then shortly before her presumed passing, (I know we don't know for sure,) she became very suspicious of me. She had a very hard life and I think that perhaps completely understandably she displaced some anger onto me. She thought I was being sarcastic about things when I genuinely meant them. I have had a somewhat looming ctb date so perhaps I couldn't be there for her as much as I would have liked. She ended up asking me not to be on her goodbye thread. I can't help but feel guilty and well, basically s@@@ about it.There was no argument- she just genuinely believed I was being sarcastic when I made a complimentary comment. I feel crap about it and was going to keep it to myself, but since her passing this misunderstanding feels even worse. It's such a shame.
theanswer- you were a lovely lady who deserved a lot better from life than you got.xxx