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WilNord

Student
Dec 17, 2021
133
Has anyone here been divorced and if so what did you do to deal with it?
 
Shadowplay

Shadowplay

Average life non-enjoyer
Sep 11, 2021
853
The idea someone would marry me in the place is hilarious.
 
Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Visionary
Sep 9, 2018
2,923
Twice. Married at 23, divorced at 26. Again at 29, divorced at 34. This was all before I got sick and thought I could have a normal life. I did really want one, too. It just didn't pan out.
 
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Mixo

Mixo

Blue
Aug 2, 2020
773
I'm not quite divorced yet, but I see it happening if I continue to live without getting on the bus. Marriage is just not worth it these days.
 
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SanguineHare

Demon Bunny Queen
Dec 16, 2021
74
I was married once. It only lasted a few years before he ended things and we divorced.
I don't deal with it well.
 
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Shadowplay

Shadowplay

Average life non-enjoyer
Sep 11, 2021
853
Twice. Married at 23, divorced at 26. Again at 29, divorced at 34. This was all before I got sick and thought I could have a normal life. I did really want one, too. It just didn't pan out.
You got someone to marry you TWICE. 2 more times than I ever will. Be thankful!
 
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Kennish

Specialist
Aug 17, 2021
379
Recently split up with my x. We have a child under 1 year. It wasn't meant to be with us. Long story. We constantly argue. I have no life.
 
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Noctis

Noctis

I wish I'd done it years ago
Dec 15, 2021
308
I could see it heading there if I also don't catch the bus. Not in an abusive relationship by any means, just don't want to be here...

Has anyone been in a similar situation? I don't know if it's just my self-destructive drive making me feel this way. How did you know it was time to get out?
I'm in a similar situation, and I have no idea how to get out.

I mean, she's great. She's giving and kind, she has a heart of gold, and she's a genuinely good person, but I'm just not happy with her. And I know she absolutely loves me, and divorcing would destroy her, and she doesn't deserve that... but we're just not meant to be together.

So, when you get an answer, please lemme know.
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Visionary
Sep 9, 2018
2,923
You got someone to marry you TWICE. 2 more times than I ever will. Be thankful!
That's only because I'm a very sexy duck, as hotelbeneathground will attest. For what it's worth I think you're way cooler than me. And hell I'd marry you if I wasn't so unfashionably straight.
 
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WilNord

Student
Dec 17, 2021
133
Recently split up with my x. We have a child under 1 year. It wasn't meant to be with us. Long story. We constantly argue. I have no life.
That's horrible. I wasn't so unlucky and didn't have children with my ex-wife
 
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Ashu

novelist, sanskritist, Canadian living in India
Nov 13, 2021
699
If I never get away from her, I'll never stop feeling like killing myself. If I do get away from her, I will kill myself.
 
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