Discussion Where is the best place to die?

[AloeGarten]

I ask because i really wouldnt want to fuck someone up by having them work a normal job and run into a body, e.g. in a hotel room. is there a way i can ctb without having anyone innocent find my body? id rather 999 ambulance worker dudes find my body but i cant really call them because if they find you early, theres a decent chance of being brought back alive

i was thinking of renting a place near the sea then doing it a distance away from the house, and leaving a note to call 999. thoughts?

 

[Fehler]

For me the best option is to send a scheduled email to the police. If you can't in your home you can always put the geolocation of the place where you are going to do it. In addition to being able to cancel the sending of the mail if you rethink it.

 

[M.M]

In a hotel room.

Put up a message for when they come the next they: Say they shouldn't enter but rather contact emergency services to get the body.

 

[PDAnnie2610]

I'm trying to decide if I should die in the park, a toilet cubicle - I just simply can't think of a place where I can avoid hurting others. I would have wanted to try to live but I'm in so much pain, it is impossible. I've the finances and the income to try to live but it will be a lonely and painful existence after he left me, and his decision to leave me due to my suicidal ideation has been a betrayal of the love and trust. My family will move on, and my siblings will have their SO and I am simply not whole enough to love and be loved anymore.

 

[Burned out]

Bump for suggestions. I don't like the hotel idea because I think people can get sued for that; either you (if it fails), or your family may have to pay fines.

 

[Al Cappella]

Out in the bush, camping. Warm weather probably. Around here there are massive dead zones, and so it would take awhile to be found. Avoid hunting season = fewer lookie-loos…

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

Bump for suggestions. I don't like the hotel idea because I think people can get sued for that; either you (if it fails), or your family may have to pay fines.

This argument is brought up here so often

Do you really think a hotel chain is going to sue for damages over a suicide ? Consider the PR implications

It's not going to happen. If it does happen it would have to be if some really drastic method was used like setting the room alight , something that fucked the entire hotel .

In the US legal system your family cannot be held liable for your actions unless you are a minor

 

[sparky10]

In your car maybe as some remote spot

 

[befree]

It depends on the method.

 

[DeepSlumber]

Really trying to work this out. It all needs to go according to plan. No messing things up or leaving losse threads or carelsss "forgottens". If I were to put in mail (landmail) a letter to firends who are the only people I want to have access to my stuff, sending them house keys and saying "you might want to come to my place once you receive this letter..." or some such thing.
The thing is, by that time, I will either be in a coma post Nembutal ingestion, or I'll be dead and decomposing. I don't want them to have the shock and nasty encounter of a decomposing, smelly, maggot-riddled corpse, but I don't want strangers rummaging through my stuff.
So I was also thinking of putting any sensitive, personal stuff--incl. guns---in a storage locker, and sending the keys to my friends, as well a copy of my will, granting them rights to certain things.
Just hope I succeed, b/c a failed attempt and being found unconscious by friends/cops/EMTs would not bode well.
Okay, as for location of where to do the deed. It's so hard, it seems, to find a place and circumstance where others would leave one be and not interfere/intervene.
It sucks having no family, and it's all up to me as to how to carry this out, get my stuff into my friends' hands legally, and minimize the distress one would feel (and repulsion) upon discovering the decomposing body of your one-time friend. Not pretty. Not easy.

 

[Judy Garland]

For me, I personally would choose the woods on a warm spring or summer day. Nature is all around and it's peaceful. Something about four walls and a ceiling make me feel claustrophobic.

 

[NormaJeane]

The method determines the location. I have to choose between home and hotel, because if I go to nature, someone can stop me.

 

[Sadboyspecimen]

I bought my N and then signed a lease on a new apartment. Now I live in a new town away from family and people I used to call friends, so there is no immediate threat of being discovered. I'm not close with anyone at all anymore. There's no one knocking on my door. I would advise getting into a similar situation if you have the money and good credit. I recommend this for the value of not being discovered, but also because being in this situation has actually felt very good. Leaving my old life behind has inspired me to give life another chance. I know that I still have to ctb simply because of all of the stupid things I have done, and I know I will. But leaving everything behind feels so liberating and I think that it will make my exit more comforting for me. If only I could leave behind my memories too, then I could maybe continue on. Maybe you could too?

 

[BigGimpin]

One of my biggest fears is dying in a fucking hospital, I want to die at home, in peace, by my own hand. That is why I have chosen N.

 

[Socaku]

Anywhere that will make you feel comfortable, after all perhaps it will be the last place u ever existed....