Discussion What's the worse thing anyone's ever said to you?

[Bazzinga]

My mom just told me that I should be held accountable for her death, I've been asked to kill myself a countless number of times and that it would be better for them if I did, my friends have seen my self harm scars when I asked for help and asked me to chop my dick off with a blade and that they would help me do that too, the list just keeps growing it sucks, what's the worse thing anyone's ever said to you?

 

[Symbiote]

"You're not my son...." ~mom

 

[WornOutLife]

"You will always be a loser. "
By some ex classmates.

They were really mean and those words haunted me for years.

Anyway, I don't consider myself a loser but damn, I'm so unstable mentally lol. I can be a winner and then turn my switch off and be depressed and not very productive for hours!

 

[Symbiote]

"You will always be a loser. "
By some ex classmates.

They were really mean and those words haunted me for years.

Anyway, I don't consider myself a loser but damn, I'm so unstable mentally lol. I can be a winner and then turn my switch off and be depressed and not very productive for hours!

HS years were the pits, and then college was like HS but with older kids. If I ever one day fully recover, I hope to attend a HS reunion and stand up to my former classmates.

 

[user667]

by someone who meant the world with me (a teacher i formed an intense obsession on who was basically my mother)
"you're difficult to love and you're never going to be happy."

 

[x~Sophia~x]

My mam blamed me for her terminal stomach and bowel cancer
She was a chain smoker and borderline alcoholic... could it be possible that these factors could've caused her terminal illness. She's been dead 17 years.

 

[hoffnungstod]

"You weren't planned" - my mother
It wasn't really meant badly in this moment, but it confirmed my worthlessness.

 

[WornOutLife]

HS years were the pits, and then college was like HS but with older kids. If I ever one day fully recover, I hope to attend a HS reunion and stand up to my former classmates.

I would also like to attend a HS reunion and say so many things to my ex classmates. From what I've seen on fb, most of them are the really losers now lol. 3 children, a terrible job, bald head, etc haha.

I guess karma might be real!

 

[Symbiote]

It's always our mothers that say the worst shit to us. Dads either end up leaving early or eventually say it when we're much older.

I would also like to attend a HS reunion and say so many things to my ex classmates. From what I've seen on fb, most of them are the really losers now lol. 3 children, a terrible job, bald head, etc haha.

I guess karma might be real!

Fuck yeah man. I look up my bully from HS who called me loser all the time and even worse after I dropped out. Smug satisfaction that he got married, but then divorced, works at a small electronics store, but still brags about him being valedictorian in HS. The same guy that placed a bet that I would kill myself before I hit 20, that dude gonna shit himself in 2022, when I come back to collect that bet.

 

[Spitfire]

When I was 14-15 years old, my best friend told me something in all seriousness. He says out of the blue that when I got older I would have to go crazy. It was as genuine as anything I have ever heard in my life. It was not said to be harmful to me and was not percieved as such.

I agreed, and this is what I think of as the worst thing I have ever heard said to me, because of soo clearly agreeing and knowing it was true, it was sad. I never felt such a sadness as with that realization.

 

[Going Home]

Whatever their comments were F them.
Don't waste one second thinking of them.

 

[Okami]

"I want you to kill yourself so you never hurt anyone again."

I will be gone, in time.

 

[KleinerWolf]

"He's super weak"
when I was bullied in primary school.

"they will never accept you"
commented by my dad regarding my preference to stick with the westerners. He does not understand China sucks and also does not support my choice as an individual. He triggers me in order to hold more authority over me.

 

[woknows]

That I should be castrated. That I should kill myself. That I will be killed.

 

[Bazzinga]

"You weren't planned" - my mother
It wasn't really meant badly in this moment, but it confirmed my worthlessness.

i wasn't planned either, i mean i'm a september born they might have partied hard and gotten drunk for new years and did it? makes sense though , but bringing me here to this sinful place and then wishing me dead doesn't, i never asked for this:(

 

[stygal]

"Whatever happens - even when you have to sit in a wheelchair - I will never leave your side"
- my ex after my chronic pain got worse and a year before he left me for good (for not being able to "keep up" with his life)

"spoiled brat/cunt/not my daughter"
- my father

 

[BandAddict]

Man, people are fucking awful. I'm sorry anyone has to listen to that bullshit.

It's hard for me to think of one that I'd call the worst, I'll just pull some out of my memory at random.

"You'd take my very last breath if you could." — My grandma

"Your mom should have never had kids." — Also my grandma

"And you wonder why I drink and smoke." — Grandma again

"You didn't deserve for anyone to care that much honestly." — A girl I "dated" (but not really)

Okay I'm done perusing through my brain now. I'd say the most messed up shit was said throughout conversations that's hard for me to sum up out of context.

 

[watchingthewheels]

My mother screaming "I HATE YOU KIDS!" when I was a teen.
And her denial, when I found out that she lied about my the cause of my father's suicide being unknown, that she helped cause it, only to turn around and blame him, and call everyone else a liar when presented with a police report containing her own words confirming the truth about it.

 

[Bazzinga]

it sucks:(, i'm sorry you all had to go through all that :(, its so saddening, rather scary how cruel, heartless and mean people can be sometimes you know;(, it doesn't take balls of steel to be nice to people:(, even if they cant be for a reason better not say anything, rather than saying stuff like these and making it harder;( i just dont understand people sometimes, sending you all hugs

 

[signifying nothing]

"I'm sorry", as I endured probably the most traumatic experience of my life.

 

[MrBlue]

"The best thing about you is that you know how much of a loser you are"

"Because he's fugly and not good at anything" everyone in my 6th form were hanging out in the room opposite me, and someone mentioned that I seemed 'worse' recently. That was the answer about 30 people agreed upon.

"Not Mrblue, I'm not having one of 'those' at my party" Someone at uni was having a halloween party for the whole year. Someone asked if literally everyone was going.

There was also the time I made a girl cry because apparently my mere presence made her insecure about her weight.

 

[_Kaira_]

"My daughter's a basketcase." -My mom

"You're a disappointment." -My dad


"I understand why your parents and brother did what they did to you."
"You don't know abuse, you probably think spankings are abuse too."
"You will die alone."
"You will never be happy."
"You're not worth it anymore."
"Go do it then (suicide)." -All my ex

I was used to the majority of the cruelty my family ever showed me. My ex's words stung so much worse.

 

[Neowise]

• Mother, 2019. I had two doctor appointments on the same day and accidentally mixed them up; showed up to the wrong doctor at 11:00:
  "You are just like a child. Hopefully, soon someone comes and fucks you so that your hormone production gets going and you finally grow up."
  
  
• Mother, some time during the past 3 years. We had a row, not sure what it was about. As she doesn't know how to use a computer I usually look up things on the internet for her, and that day she called me an autist and wanted me to google typical symptoms for autism. I had to do it while she sat next to me and while we read the article she pointed her finger at every point that seemed to be true for me.
  This was less of a verbal thing than a gesture, but it was so humiliating. I felt like shit and still do, this is one of the worst things she has done to me I guess.
  
  
• Mother, back when I was in elementary school (~7-9 years old). Not sure what I did, maybe a bad mark? We have two younger girls living in the neighbourhood, let's call them Clara (who was kindergarten age) and Eve (baby). My mom said something along the lines of:
  "You are so dumb, you should go back to kindergarten together with Clara. And when Clara goes to school you'll stay in kindergarten. Then Eve will come to kindergarten with you. And when she gets older she will go to school, too and you will still stay in kindergarten."
  That broke my heart back then, even my best friend said "that is mean of a mother to say to her child". It has left a mark on my character.
  

I've been insulted countless times, mostly by my narcissistic mother. I grew up like this and am still living at home (25 years old now) so I'm totally used to it. Small insults don't do anything to me, but those 3 above have stuck to me and I will never forget them.

 

[loopylou]

I told your mum she should of aborted you. ( from my auntie, my mums sister )

 

[MindFrog]

"Maybe you only told this now, cause you secretly liked it" - my mom when I had the courage to tell her i was molested as a child.

 

[Squiddy]

I've been called a monkey (by this racist ass kid in middle school), I've been told to go die in a hole, been called an asshole, I've been told that I couldn't go to someone's party because I'm black, been called a bitch etc...

 

[Life_and_Death]

i have a few things that i could choose from but if i have to choose one....it would have to be what my "parents" said about me. we were over at a family friends house for a bbq and we were watching big bang theory (first and last episode i had ever seen) and he had said something about children being like pancakes the first is always a fail. and they agreed and they all laughed with me right there.

 

[Kbeau]

"You're not my son...." ~mom

Oh that's lovely....

 

[justanotherstar]

You're everything people don't want to be

 

[Meditation guide]

Just today someone here called me an "unpleasant person" on one of the forums. I've never had anyone bully me before coming to this site and one person does it repeatedly. It happened brutally less than one month ago from the same person.