reapandsow918

reapandsow918

Let the waves take me
Nov 6, 2019
191
I'm stuck in a situation where I can't order SN to my house. My family is nosey and they will check my package. I have a history of suicide attempts so they are always watching me. Rent is very high where I live so moving out locally is not obtainable for me, it would have to be out of state. PO Boxes are very far away from my house so they will notice me leaving.

I will have the option and freedom to move to a different state soon. Or if I get a hotel room can I order my SN there? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
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lymestolemylife

Student
Nov 27, 2019
139
I'm stuck in a situation where I can't order SN to my house. My family is nosey and they will check my package. I have a history of suicide attempts so they are always watching me. Rent is very high where I live so moving out locally is not obtainable for me, it would have to be out of state. PO Boxes are very far away from my house so they will notice me leaving.

I will have the option and freedom to move to a different state soon. Or if I get a hotel room can I order my SN there? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Amazon Locker?
Amazon Locker?
I got my SN on Amazon you could have it shipped to a locker and pick it up there, at a near by grocer or whoever is participating in the Amazon Locker location.
 
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LMLN

LMLN

Paragon
Aug 10, 2019
929
Amazon Locker?

I got my SN on Amazon you could have it shipped to a locker and pick it up there, at a near by grocer or whoever is participating in the Amazon Locker location.
I was not able to have SN shipped to the locker. Said only private address for this item. Hmmm.
 
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jgm63

Visionary
Oct 28, 2019
2,467
I think there's a few amazon sellers. I wonder if any of them can ship to amazon lockers ?

I would have thought ordering to a hotel was a possible option.
Ideally, might be best to have an address that didn't sound too much like a hotel, eg something like "xyz lodge", perhaps ?
Maybe you could book it, and ask them if the package arrives before you check in to keep it for you ?

Note : As always, please note that I strongly encourage you to seek help with whatever is troubling you. With the right help things can improve. There are many sources of help if you look and reach out. Please seek assistance in any and every way possible. You alone must decide upon your actions and take full responsibility for them, and you should always favour seeking help and keeping out of harm's way.
 
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realjunes

Warlock
Oct 1, 2019
730
I assume in are in USA. Almost any hotel will accept mail for you, you just need to make sure the seller will deliver there. On the order, page change your delivery address to the hotel street address where you will stay, and if that seller won't ship to that address, the order page will tell you that. If it shows it will deliver, just note how long it would take to get delivery, and plan to order the item so it will arrive while you are at the hotel. However, if you cannot get to the post office because of parents, I don't know how you can do the hotel. You said soon you can move to another state, that sounds like a plan because there you can get a PO box, or use a hotel there, or a UPS store to receive your package. Some mail receiving stores will allow accept a one time package for you for about $5 and you don't have to rent a box. Just call mail forwarding companies, say you are traveling but need to receive a package while in that town, and they will say yes if they do that. By the way, you can try the "traveling can i send a package to you" story with a local UPS store or mail receiving store in your town, if you can get away once the package arrives. If you are watched so much, you may be concerned that someone nosy will find your package searching your room, so you have to consider whether you have a dry cool place to store it. Sounds like you should wait till you are on your own in another city. You may have so much relief not being under the thumb of others, you may want to think then if your life is improved with the move.
 
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