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roo

roo

I’m alright, spring will come to me too someday
Feb 20, 2022
44
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its-about-time

its-about-time

nope
Mar 19, 2022
807
Freeze up out of shock, watch them die, be traumatized, spend the rest of my days blaming myself
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,906
Nothing. Just walk away. It is their life and their decision, no one else has any right to interfere with a suicide attempt. The right to die should always be respected.
 
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thedaywillcome

thedaywillcome

I will leave soon
Apr 2, 2022
358
Running away! I am weirdo you say?
 
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Symbiote

Illuminated
Oct 12, 2020
3,099
Nothing I can do really. They're too far up to hear me, I'm not in a good state of mind to convince them, and I don't think letting them know to do a barrel roll on the way down is helpful.
 
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pikku.tiikeri

pikku.tiikeri

Member
Apr 17, 2022
94
I would wish I could gather the courage to kill myself on seeing them jump. I'm a coward who is finding it very difficult to kill myself.
 
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Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,372
Freeze up out of shock, watch them die, be traumatized, spend the rest of my days blaming myself
Prbbly mst realstc answr

Slf wld try 2 stp thm bcse slf ds nt wnt sm1 els dth on own conscnce - whlst c.t.b cld b ratnl dcisn thy cld also b in tempry criss

On flp-sde slf wld nevr pt n.e.1 els in tht postn of witnssng c.t.b / wld nevr c.t.b whre othr ppl cn hve opprtnty 2 succd or fail in hlpng slf & crry thr own gult or unanswrd qustns arnd it if slf wre 2 di
 
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roo

roo

I’m alright, spring will come to me too someday
Feb 20, 2022
44
Prbbly mst realstc answr

Slf wld try 2 stp thm bcse slf ds nt wnt sm1 els dth on own conscnce - whlst c.t.b cld b ratnl dcisn thy cld also b in tempry criss

On flp-sde slf wld nevr pt n.e.1 els in tht postn of witnssng c.t.b / wld nevr c.t.b whre othr ppl cn hve opprtnty 2 succd or fail in hlpng slf & crry thr own gult or unanswrd qustns arnd it if slf wre 2 di
totally agree with u, i feel selfish but id want to interfere
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
9,028
I don't know. What are you supposed to do? Climb up, try to talk them down, maybe grab them as they jump and have them pull you over with them? Sorry, not looking to die that way. Actually, it's really sort of a gruesome and traumatic way to go, especially for this who see it. Doubt I would watch.
 
Dot

Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,372
I don't know. What are you supposed to do? Climb up, try to talk them down, maybe grab them as they jump and have them pull you over with them? Sorry, not looking to die that way. Actually, it's really sort of a gruesome and traumatic way to go, especially for this who see it. Doubt I would watch.
Yh slf wld prbbly gt clse enuf 2 tlk 2 thm frm sfe dstnce unlss thre r othr ppl thre 2 hlp also
 
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NSA

NSA

Your friendly neighborhood agent
Feb 21, 2022
271
Probably just watch lol. And call emergency if it's clear they survived. Maybe. Would that be the actual right thing to do? If they're screaming for help, sure, but what if they're so mangled they can't talk but are still not dead?🤔

If I was in some kind of position to advise or talk, I might try. "Hey, I noticed you seem to want to jump. Just to let ya know, this height and the landing area might be kind of iffy for success. Have you by chance heard of SN?"
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
2,913
I'm a curious person, so I would politely ask for a brief pause to know her or his life story, give some feedback, then I would confide with the person my own relationship with suicide and make clear that I would respect the decision the person takes.
 
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WhiteDespair

WhiteDespair

The Temporary Problem is Life
Oct 24, 2019
837
"do a flip"
 
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DerTod

DerTod

No alarms and no surprises
Apr 17, 2022
136
This actually happened to me. A neighbor jumped from his 4th floor apartment at 5 am in the morning. I was in bed about to fall asleep and i was living at ground floor.The sound was very heavy. I went to look on the window but couldn't see anything because it was still dark outside. I thought that maybe something else fell and went to bed...but in the back of my mind i also thought of the possibility of a person being there. I couldn't sleep well. At 9 am i woke up...police was in front of my window. It was a man who lost one leg and the doctors wanted to amputate the other as well. He felt like a burden to his sister who took care of him so he jumped....he made so noise. I lived in that apartment for only 6 months and in that time span another woman jumped from the 7th floor with a hat pulled on her eyes. But she did it on the other side of the block. And in the past others did the same in that block. I don't regret i haven't announced the police or went out to inspect. He certainly wanted this and i would have caused him more harm if i tried to save him....in case he didn't die right away....he never made any noise.
 
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CommitSudoku

never interfere with a lifespan reaping
Feb 12, 2022
524
I'd want to ask them what brought them to that point and hear their story if they were willing to share. I wouldn't try to stop them unless there seemed a reason to, like they were looking for help and didn't want to go yet. I'm not sure if I could watch or not, I go back and forth between being incredibly numb and feeling too much so I don't know how I'd react or what I'd be capable of.
 
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WorthlessTrash

WorthlessTrash

Worthless
Apr 19, 2022
2,430
Good question. I'd be a hypocrite if I tried to stop them, but then again, I'd probably have to because if I walked away, I could be charged in connection to their death.

Hopefully I will never have to find out.
 

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