Discussion What would make your life great and worthwhile?

[SpiderLink]

Basically if your wishes came true, and all the struggles came to an end… what would that look like? Your pains gone, all of it gone. What would u do? (Sorry I find it hard to word this question I hope it makes sense lol)

For me it would be not having to mask my personality, my disorders and my struggles. Not having to fear to get hurt, and not having my past as a weapon. Also to be accepted for who I truly am. I just wish I could forget a bunch of stuff too. I wish I wasn't so alone, broken and worthless. And someone just like me out there, that's just some thoughts, I'm sure there's more if I put a bit more thought into it… but if those could just be gone, maybe I wouldn't be in this dark place…

 

[Stormy Raine]

Great question. To have my biological mother alive, I miss her so much!

 

[SpiderLink]

Great question. To have my biological mother alive, I miss her so much!

I'm sorry to hear that, it must be really hard and that's valid. Sending hugs

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Being born the correct sex from the very beginning and being average looking/attractive as such. All I need for the hardships to be worth it.

 

[SpiderLink]

Being born the correct sex from the very beginning and being average looking/attractive as such. All I need for the hardships to be worth it.

Sending love and that's valid. I see where your coming from, I'm Nb, I know it isn't the same but similar in some ways. I hope you know your not alone in this

 

[GasMonkey]

A young GigaChad body with optimal health and a couple million dollars.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

A young GigaChad body with optimal health and a couple million dollars.

 

[Heavenbound]

I don't want to be wealthy, but just have enough money to live comfortably and not have to worry like I do now. Also would like to have a loving monogamous partner, possibly live in a different country. I would love to have my loved ones back in the earthly realm, and in optimal health, and that my family would be accepting of me and my partner. I'd just like to be happy for once with no anxiety.
There were 8 days in my life that I felt truly happy, loved, validated, human. I would give anything to have that back.

 

[Dead Horse]

If I had to answer, I'd say a job I don't hate, a girlfriend, and a small group of friends.
Or, a more optimistic outlook on life and not being anxious and afraid all the time.

In reality, though, I don't really believe my brain is capable of being happy, no matter what. I'm not sure if I ever was, even as a child.

 

[Source Energy]

The arms of the man I love around me. I asked for nothing more out of life...

 

[unplug]

At this point? Nothing.

 

[rcs]

Basically if your wishes came true, and all the struggles came to an end… what would that look like? Your pains gone, all of it gone. What would u do? (Sorry I find it hard to word this question I hope it makes sense lol)

For me it would be not having to mask my personality, my disorders and my struggles. Not having to fear to get hurt, and not having my past as a weapon. Also to be accepted for who I truly am. I just wish I could forget a bunch of stuff too. I wish I wasn't so alone, broken and worthless. And someone just like me out there, that's just some thoughts, I'm sure there's more if I put a bit more thought into it… but if those could just be gone, maybe I wouldn't be in this dark place…

I feel the same way. I've been isolating myself and I feel beyond lonely. But I feel that I shouldn't burden others with my thoughts and feelings. It would just be so nice to have someone to keep pushing me, someone that would understand and not get upset with me for feeling the way I do. Even my therapist is kinda fed up with me. But I digress.

If all my wishes came true and all the struggles came to an end.. I would be living on my own, away from my parents. I wouldn't have to interact with them. I'd be healthy -- eat enough and sleep enough and get up at an appropriate time in the morning and go to sleep at a reasonable time. I'd have graduated with my degree, maybe even landed a job in my field without worry. I would have enough energy to get through the day. I'd have my drive and motivation back, my cognition and ability to sit down and focus for hours and hours. I'd be so happy if my brain just worked properly again. I'd be able to accomplish whatever I want. I wouldn't have these stupid nightmares, I wouldn't have flashbacks and these terrible thoughts. I would live with my boyfriend. We're long-distance right now. I would spend my time creating things. Maybe any cool apps I have ideas for. I'd do lots of knitting and sewing. And progress as a photographer. I would love to have a darkroom. Basically, I would be able to do whatever I want, without these mental and physical limits. I just want to be normal again.

Sorry if that was a lot. I really liked your question!

 

[Danyyyyy]

Something that would be nice would be non-judgement with loved ones, being able to trust them with anything, regardless of whether it's considered taboo or known publically. And to be able to not overthink, I'm always getting overwhelmed by my own thoughts regarding assignments, people, certain things etc etc. its exhausting :(( and I just want to not think abt anything once in while (while not sleeping lel)

 

[SpiderLink]

Everyone's responses r all valid. I hear you

I feel the same way. I've been isolating myself and I feel beyond lonely. But I feel that I shouldn't burden others with my thoughts and feelings. It would just be so nice to have someone to keep pushing me, someone that would understand and not get upset with me for feeling the way I do. Even my therapist is kinda fed up with me. But I digress.

If all my wishes came true and all the struggles came to an end.. I would be living on my own, away from my parents. I wouldn't have to interact with them. I'd be healthy -- eat enough and sleep enough and get up at an appropriate time in the morning and go to sleep at a reasonable time. I'd have graduated with my degree, maybe even landed a job in my field without worry. I would have enough energy to get through the day. I'd have my drive and motivation back, my cognition and ability to sit down and focus for hours and hours. I'd be so happy if my brain just worked properly again. I'd be able to accomplish whatever I want. I wouldn't have these stupid nightmares, I wouldn't have flashbacks and these terrible thoughts. I would live with my boyfriend. We're long-distance right now. I would spend my time creating things. Maybe any cool apps I have ideas for. I'd do lots of knitting and sewing. And progress as a photographer. I would love to have a darkroom. Basically, I would be able to do whatever I want, without these mental and physical limits. I just want to be normal again.

Sorry if that was a lot. I really liked your question!

No that's not a lot! I feel your first part of your message strongly. Your not alone in feeling that way

Something that would be nice would be non-judgement with loved ones, being able to trust them with anything, regardless of whether it's considered taboo or known publically. And to be able to not overthink, I'm always getting overwhelmed by my own thoughts regarding assignments, people, certain things etc etc. its exhausting :(( and I just want to not think abt anything once in while (while not sleeping lel)

I feel ya, your not alone in feeling this way

At this point? Nothing.

What do u mean by that exactly? If u don't mind me asking, I'm just curious.

The arms of the man I love around me. I asked for nothing more out of life...

 

[FuneralCry]

My wish is to permanently cease existing, nothingness is what is ideal to me, I don't want anything to do with existence at all, existence is a burden, it's something tedious, futile, undesirable and doesn't interest me. There is nothing great about life and it could never be worthwhile being trapped inside this flesh prison that is destined to decay from old age, I find it tiring and unnecessary just being awake, and anyway this cruel and chaotic world where we risk ending up in a situation of even worse suffering at any moment could never be worth existing in to me. I just personally despise life and I view life in itself as being the true problem, to me it's always preferable to not exist.

 

[Csmith8827]

Getting my legs fixed up or them healing on they're own and getting my money set up and flowing in California so I can have my own life.

 

[Rocinante]

I just wanted a friend

 

[momdontcryplease]

My wishes would be impossible without magic so the next best thing would be to somehow be the luckiest person on the planet and win a big lottery. Then my parents wouldn't need to suffer any longer.

 

[gottablast888]

Mental stability

 

[Forever Sleep]

On a very basic level- to earn enough money from my creative job to be able to sustain myself financially and not worry. I'd still want a way out if I develop illness though- nothing is worth sticking around with that (in my opinion.)

On a fantasy level- I want to find a way of reversing global warming and how to heal all the collosal damage we have already done to this planet... I guess that's either science though (which I was crap at) or- some super hero level ability. That would TRULY make my life worthwhile. I'd quite enjoy bankrupting some of the rich corporate arseholes that knowingly exploited the world and it's poorest people too. That would be a bonus...

 

[targz]

There are things that could distract one better, like money, social life, attractiveness, etc. But ultimately I think there's nothing that could make life actually worthwhile IMHO.

 

[SpiderLink]

My wish is to permanently cease existing, nothingness is what is ideal to me, I don't want anything to do with existence at all, existence is a burden, it's something tedious, futile, undesirable and doesn't interest me. There is nothing great about life and it could never be worthwhile being trapped inside this flesh prison that is destined to decay from old age, I find it tiring and unnecessary just being awake, and anyway this cruel and chaotic world where we risk ending up in a situation of even worse suffering at any moment could never be worth existing in to me. I just personally despise life and I view life in itself as being the true problem, to me it's always preferable to not exist.

I feel ya. But is there things that u wish could get better?

I just wanted a friend

I'm here if u wanna talk or anything

My wishes would be impossible without magic so the next best thing would be to somehow be the luckiest person on the planet and win a big lottery. Then my parents wouldn't need to suffer any longer.

Well that's also part of the question, some things in this world can't be changed, but do u have an idea of what those magic wishes would be?

Mental stability

I feel u, your not alone in that place

On a very basic level- to earn enough money from my creative job to be able to sustain myself financially and not worry. I'd still want a way out if I develop illness though- nothing is worth sticking around with that (in my opinion.)

On a fantasy level- I want to find a way of reversing global warming and how to heal all the collosal damage we have already done to this planet... I guess that's either science though (which I was crap at) or- some super hero level ability. That would TRULY make my life worthwhile. I'd quite enjoy bankrupting some of the rich corporate arseholes that knowingly exploited the world and it's poorest people too. That would be a bonus...

Nice! I like your thoughts

There are things that could distract one better, like money, social life, attractiveness, etc. But ultimately I think there's nothing that could make life actually worthwhile IMHO.

I relate, doesn't have to be perfect but at least something that could maybe change some thoughts or anything. If that makes sense

 

[momdontcryplease]

If magic is allowed then to go back in time and change myself genetically in the womb so I become reborn the opposite sex. With my knowledge of the future (presumably the magic would make it so that the timeline isn't so fucked up) I could prevent my mom's accident and help myself become more educated to get a good job so I could support them until they die of old age peacefully. Basically I would be able to stop the pain from happening before it even starts.

 

[SpiderLink]

If magic is allowed then to go back in time and change myself genetically in the womb so I become reborn the opposite sex. With my knowledge of the future (presumably the magic would make it so that the timeline isn't so fucked up) I could prevent my mom's accident and help myself become more educated to get a good job so I could support them until they die of old age peacefully. Basically I would be able to stop the pain from happening before it even starts.

Yeah, I'd love to time travel and prevent things that hurt me still to this day. Or just one day forget

 

[FuneralCry]

I feel ya. But is there things that u wish could get better?

Only not existing could make things better, to die solves everything. I only wish for permanent non existence.

 

[jerry545]

To have some form of meaningful connection with another person. I feel perpetually disconnected from everyone.

 

[SpiderLink]

Only not existing could make things better, to die solves everything. I only wish for permanent non existence.

Fair enough

 

[unnormal9]

Simply ceasing to exist. This is because dreams are faux.

 

[PleaseTakeMeAway]

Nothing anymore. I'm completely lost. I have nothing now.

 

[NoLoveNoHope]

Go back in time, change my AGAB erase my memories and cure my mental illnesses with a guaranteed life in absolute ignorance and bliss with my lover.

Or if I can't pull a homura moment then I want Nembutal and a mountain of our lord and savior - Blahaj.