Discussion what to tell online friends (from other chat groups) when u suicide?

[loakms8]

so this group of online friends (never known irl) i made in other chat groups (not SASU) have been quite concerned where i went after weeks missing

do i just keep ghosting even after i suicide? its for the best right?

 

[c4di]

i think most people would rather know if their friend died. my suicidal friend ghosted for a while so i kept stressing about it, it would've been better to know anything at that time. just my opinion though

 

[NearlyIrrelevantCake]

They'll wonder and be in pain for the rest of their lives if they don't know.

 

[darksouls]

I dont have any online friends, but if I did, I would never ghost them

 

[loakms8]

I dont have any online friends, but if I did, I would never ghost them

well you are our friend here

i think most people would rather know if their friend died. my suicidal friend ghosted for a while so i kept stressing about it, it would've been better to know anything at that time. just my opinion though

its different though suicidal people talking to suicidal people

how would u even go about talking it out with normal friends

like, "hey, i am gonna jump soon and this is last message?"

they will try to help emotionally which I dont need because emotional help cant fix things

and they are unable to help in ways i need

so it will kinda be an awkward last message though

or should i invent a white lie that makes sense that i wouldnt be online forever, although its hard to have a white lie that are actually convincing for that lol

They'll wonder and be in pain for the rest of their lives if they don't know.

one i even talked about my suicidal thoughts to him before, and he did say he will have nightmares about it if he saw me not online for a year

 

[c4di]

well you are our friend here

its different though suicidal people talking to suicidal people

how would u even go about talking it out with normal friends

like, "hey, i am gonna jump soon and this is last message?"

they will try to help emotionally which I dont need because emotional help cant fix things

and they are unable to help in ways i need

so it will kinda be an awkward last message though

or should i invent a white lie that makes sense that i wouldnt be online forever, although its hard to have a white lie that are actually convincing for that lol

yeah it's definitely awkward if you dont have a note to send or anything else to say, kind of why im not sending anything either, just hope they'll figure it out.
and you could schedule messages until after you attempt to CTB to avoid them trying to help