_Minsk

_Minsk

death: the cure for life
Dec 9, 2019
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So as some of you might have heard, positive focus or focusing on positive things lifts your mood:3
(If done often enough, your subconscious will do it automatically at some point for you by repetition, it's pretty cool stuff! so instead of negative things, your mind pops up with many positive and happy things! it can even create new neuro pathways which will enable your mind to find more and more things which makes you happy, for YOU and completely automatic!:)

Which 3 things do you really appreciate and make you happy?:3:heart:
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
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I honestly wish I knew. I keep working on my hobbies but the joy just isn't there anymore. I hope one day they'll make me happy again. I wonder if hypnosis or something of the such could work to this end.
 
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_Minsk

_Minsk

death: the cure for life
Dec 9, 2019
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I honestly wish I knew. I keep working on my hobbies but the joy just isn't there anymore. I hope one day they'll make me happy again. I wonder if hypnosis or something of the such could work to this end.
i guess our minds are wired to focus on negative stuff, its like a highway/neuro pathway which we've created subconsciously in our minds. our brains are designed to be easily rewired in order to adapt.. when we think about certain things often enough, our mind creates new neuro pathways, like small highways, if these highways are often used, it logically increases its capacity. in order to create "new" highways, which should carry positive stuff we just have to thing about positive stuff long enough, our minds are so advanced that they find similarities in all things without much effort,
(that's why its so important to not dwell in self pity, it might feel like relief for a while but as we know, we get trained by positive stimulus and tend to redo it when we get faced by negative stuff)
just like the computer ai's. just think long enough about something and your mind will recognise objects which are similar to your thoughts etc..

our minds are super efficient, if you create new neuro pathways, older ones have to decrease their capacity.. it's just a matter of time:D
hope this makes any sense xD
 
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BPD Barbie

BPD Barbie

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Dec 1, 2019
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Sleep, not much else does the trick for me lately. Daydreaming perhaps, but mostly sleep, oh and food.
 
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Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

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Feb 13, 2020
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Hmm.. Litte things actually, I've sat looking at storks this week for a long time, they flew in and out of their nests to feed their youngs. It really made me smile.
 
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Weightoftheworld

Weightoftheworld

Let me burn.
Apr 19, 2020
258
My dog. Movies. Shopping. They are temporary feelings, but in the moment it makes me happy.
 
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pete_x

Good god, let's eat !
May 9, 2020
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The thought of living in a world where a black child can go out play without being targeted and murdered by a white pig.
 
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xXSarac3nSlay3rXx

xXSarac3nSlay3rXx

“Leaving this world is not as scary as it sounds.”
Mar 3, 2019
248
Drugs. Some people say money can't buy happiness, but money can buy drugs and drugs can make you happy.
 
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Nyxx33

Nyxx33

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May 8, 2020
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It used to be cuddling with and talking to my SO among doing other things.
but i was still not enough for him oh well
 
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Remember to forget

Remember to forget

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Mar 6, 2020
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The thought of living in a world where a black child can go out play without being targeted and murdered by a white pig.
Pete do you mind me asking where these children are being targeted and murdered? I would like to find out a bit more.
 
a.n.kirillov

a.n.kirillov

velle non discitur
Nov 17, 2019
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Philosophical discussions with friends. The feeling of curling up in a sleeping bag after a 20 mile mountain hike through snow and ice. Having a sudden realization.
 
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GoBack

GoBack

Paragon
Apr 25, 2020
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Doing art used to make me happy. A sketchbook and a chair and some wine, or a studio with loadsa people makin a mess and the smell of turps/white spirit.

And then go the pub.

Now that's gone, nothin.
 
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Woodnote

Woodnote

Goodbye
Oct 23, 2019
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My dogs are the only thing that makes me happy. :heart:
 
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Epsilon0

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Dec 28, 2019
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Work.
 
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Cashewmilk

Cashewmilk

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Mar 10, 2020
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These days the things that make me the happiest are having my drugs, cigarettes, almond milk, and wafer cookies (the most happiest)... and seeing my hedgehog be normal with no health issues lol... oh and sleep. Sleeping is definitely the best, it's like dying for a little while, a good break from reality

Pete do you mind me asking where these children are being targeted and murdered? I would like to find out a bit more.
Probably in America
 
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GoBack

Paragon
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These days the things that make me the happiest are having my drugs, cigarettes, almond milk, and wafer cookies (the most happiest)... and seeing my hedgehog be normal with no health issues lol

Wut, You have a hedgehog?
 
JustAnotherSuicider

JustAnotherSuicider

Hoping for the best - expecting the worst
Dec 28, 2019
98
Nothing, literally nothing. There is no more joy in my life. I'm not even sure If I'm even able to feel that feeling anymore ever again.

Things that used to ease my mind don't work anymore. I abandoned all my hobbies. Everything seems so pointless and meaningless.
 
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