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What is your sexual orientation?
Thread starterPlaco
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I know in advance that some people will feel offended because they will not feel included in any of these four choices but I tried to keep it as limited as possible otherwise 200 options would not be enough, these people can very well not vote and write in the thread how they define themselves.
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Bad Karma, We Are Angels, _AllCatsAreGrey_ and 1 other person
This is one of the very few things about myself that I actually love.
I mean, being able to... enjoy all the menu options... It comes with its benefits...
What gender are they? How do they dress? Are they masculine or feminine? Are they big & tall, or small & petite, or somewhere in between? It's no matter to me because they're ALL good.
And I love the instant connection I feel to other people who identify under the LGBTQ umbrella... There is a comfort in being part of that community... just a built-in feeling of understanding and acceptance and knowing there are a lot of people who, on some level, will always be in my corner.
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Anonymousa, Gl1tch3d G1rl, CatLvr and 7 others
Ngl idk. I wouldn't be surprised if I fall on the aro ace spectrum.
I never genuinely felt romantic or sexual attraction to anyone but I really want to. I would like a relationship but the idea of it is also weird to me.
But it could be the meds or I haven't found the right person
I am a lesbian who desperately tried to be straight my entire life. I mimicked my straight friends growing up and then when older did the straightest thing I could think of: married a man. We've been married ten years. We are going to divorce. He's my bestie and it's fucking painful.
My family is very Christian and doesn't support me. I was Christian most of my life. I used to beg god sobbing to make me straight. Then I just begged him to unalive me instead.
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deadstillwalking, pilotviolin and killorbekilled
I feel exactly the same way and feel like this is the only place I can admit to being asexual. Still, I'm glad to be too since sexuality is responsible for so much violence and trauma.
Essentially every person that grows up homo gets mentally annihilated during vulnerable years of youth by the homophobia, alienation, isolation and secrecy that comes with it. And you get limited to a tiny subsection of society as your dating pool so barely anyone you meet organically will not reject you. The effects are incomprehensible. So youre probably mistaken.
Not sure what its like to be asexual
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Essentially every person that grows up homo gets mentally annihilated during vulnerable years of youth by the homophobia, alienation, isolation and secrecy that comes with it. And you get limited to a tiny subsection of society as your dating pool so barely anyone you meet organically will not reject you. The effects are incomprehensible. So youre probably mistaken.
Not sure what its like to be asexual
Of course I know that guys. I didn't mean that I'd be privileged if I was homo or asexual. Besides, I'm already isolated, lonely and suicidal as hell, so I don't think it would change anything too much. Anyway, the real reason is, I just can't get a girlfriend and I don't think I'll be able to get one. I'll never experience the real love. So I just wanna give up on it and never think about it again. But my body still needs/wants it. In brief, I wish I could be homo, asexual or aromantic just because I don't want to feel like I need some love. Uh.. I know, it sounds weird probably. But I'm that desperate to be emotionless, heh.
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