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pete_x

Good god, let's eat !
May 9, 2020
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Well i can't miss something i've never had so 2.
 
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Darksektori

Experienced
Jun 8, 2020
237
I want to know what do you think is worse feeling of these:

1- Never having something you ever wanted
2-Having something and losing it forever
Ooh very good and tough question, I'll say probably #2 because it's no big deal to never have something that's probably impossible or at least difficult to obtain, loosing something forever we probably already experienced this therefore you're already vulnerable so generally its usually the worst of the two.
 
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Shakespear's Brother

Member
Sep 10, 2019
297
1- Never having something you ever wanted
2-Having something and losing it forever

When I was younger, #2

But now that I am in middle age, it is #1.

As I get closer to death, be it natural or CTB, all of the things I will never experience are coming into focus and the pain I feel around that is very similar to a sense of loss, it is enormously overwhelming.
 
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KibblesNBits

Student
May 30, 2020
151
For me, it's a mixture of the two. I wanted something I never had, only to realize I could have had it but lost the opportunity and destroyed my life forever.
 
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TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
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It's really hard to choose between the two as I feel equally bad with both choices. However, if I choose, in general, I'd go with #2, having something I once enjoyed and then losing it forever.
 
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wantingtheend

Member
Apr 15, 2020
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Having something and losing it knowing you will never get it back
 
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terry_a_davis

Warlock
Dec 28, 2019
707
Good question op i've contemplated this, 1 is worse i think although 2 can still be very painful.
 
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