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When my psychiatrist's office calls me due to worsening depression they tell me that I can always go to the psych ward, and recently I've been afraid of being sent there involuntarily.

What is the psych ward like? Sometimes I feel like going there may not be so bad, maybe there will be people there who actually care
 
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Worst experience anyone could have in their life in my experience.

I'd rather be in a police cell for the night.

I'm in the UK though and our MH services are among the worst in the world though.

Hopefully better in your country.
 
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When my psychiatrist's office calls me due to worsening depression they tell me that I can always go to the psych ward, and recently I've been afraid of being sent there involuntarily.

What is the psych ward like? Sometimes I feel like going there may not be so bad, maybe there will be people there who actually care
I know that there are different levels of confinement, based on the severity and "dangerousness" of your "illness". Also I think it depends a lot on the country we're talking about. But as a conclusion you can have a nice experience and meet great doctors and other patients there or you can get sexually abused and generally abused by other patients or the staff. I've heard both. It really depends on a lot of factors. Haven't been hospitalised tbh but I know people who were.
Worst experience anyone could have in their life in my experience.

I'd rather be in a police cell for the night.

I'm in the UK though and our MH services are among the worst in the world though.

Hopefully better in your country.
Really? Sorry to hear that. If I would've guessed, I would've said Britain has to have some great mental health institutions.
 
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I know that there are different levels of confinement, based on the severity and "dangerousness" of your "illness". Also I think it depends a lot on the country we're talking about. But as a conclusion you can have a nice experience and meet great doctors and other patients there or you can get sexually abused and generally abused by other patients or the staff. I've heard both. It really depends on a lot of factors. Haven't been hospitalised tbh but I know people who were.

Really? Sorry to hear that. If I would've guessed, I would've said Britain has to have some great mental health institutions.
Britain is collapsing under the weight of an everlasting apology.
 
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My experience, I am in the U.S. is that is a toss-up, as far as what hospital one goes to. One that I was at had horrible food and the staff was a complete nightmare. Another hospital, the food was really good, and the staff was wonderful.

I will always remember the second one, as this was after my car crash, and I was on opioids before going to the ward and they would not give me any. During the night after being there a few days, a night nurse asked why I was up and told her everything. She disappeared and came back with oxycodone pill and told me to take it and sit there. After like and half an hour, she came back and asked how I was doing. I said that the pain was still high, and she disappeared again, and this time had a doctor with her, and another pill and the doctor put me on pain meds so I could sleep. The night nurse was a saint.

Walter
 
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Worst experience anyone could have in their life in my experience.

I'd rather be in a police cell for the night.

I'm in the UK though and our MH services are among the worst in the world though.

Hopefully better in your country.
Agreed, I'm also in the UK and 100% would not recommend acute wards. I've been in the priory before following an acute admission and it was great really helpful lovely staff and therapy groups all day everyday and fun things at the weekend but acute wards are holding pens they're awful with staff that couldn't care less and nothing gets done and you're discharged in a worse state
 
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Boring, and you get treated like a lesser being. That was my experience anyway. Very weird you can lock someone up against their will like that if they haven't committed a crime.
 
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CTBookOfLife

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It.. depends. We were Baker-Acted twice (USA). Lemme format a simple "pros and cons" list.

Keep in mind we were a minor at the time, so it may be different, but I have combined my experiences with ones from others to create this list. Still, use caution.



Pros:

• If you are non-judgmental person in the case of mental illness (you are on this website, so I assume you are at least a little bit), you may find some people you connect with. I found comfort in two people in particular, both diagnosed with schizophrenia. One more "mild," one more "severe."

A trans man named Evan, I believe, had a form of schizophrenia that caused his drawings to talk to him, full personality and all. He showed me his sketchbook, was very self aware. He was my first experience with trans people, back when I thought I myself was cis. He made a lasting impression on me, and I wish I had contact with him.

The second person was a girl with "full-blown" schizophrenia. Seeing people, voices, even delusions she was black (she was not). Everyone avoided her and.. I knew that feeling. So, we struck up conversation. She was very kind.

For adults, this will likely be much different, but I have heard stories of people who have found community as an adult. The tips I've gotten essentially say, when finding friends, don't focus too much on what disorders you share, that can lead to problems. Focus on your likes, hobbies. I connected with Evan over our shared love of art, for example.

Another note: In a mental hospital, you will find people who aren't very nice, sometimes even quite nasty. Try to avoid the "numb" ones who won't change no matter what. In my experience, if one is aggressively complaining about the food, I would pipe up something like "Ugh, I know the feeling." Their reaction to that shows a lot about a person.


A roll of the eyes: Avoid

Ignoring you: Likely avoid

Agree, nod to you, anything of the sort: Proceed with caution

Use your response to prove a point or escalate the situation: Definitely avoid

Get aggressive towards you in any way: RUN. This is why this may not be a good idea to try for just anyone.


If you don't have skills to read people, an institution may be harder to navigate for you.



• Typically has a set routine. If you are tired of the monotony of life, this is a con. If you have autism, anxiety, OCD, or just a love of routine, it's definitely a pro.


• If you do not want to harm yourself, it would be extremely hard to do so while there.


• Benefits for good behavior. This depends on where you go. The one I went to had an outdoor section, with a pool.

• Activities. This also depends on where you go. The place I was in focused very heavily on art. They also had reading, sometimes movies.


Cons:


• "Cavity searches." They have you take off your clothes and cough while squatting. Unsure what happens if you refuse.


• "Booty juice." That is what the people there called the anesthetic (administered in the buttock) for aggression. I assume this is different for adults but I'm not sure enough to leave it off this list.

• Ironically, not very disability accessible. Took away my Fidget Cube I used for my autism/ADHD, claiming it could be used as a weapon (yet gave us sharpened pencils).

Floors are slippery. They took our blood the first day there, and didn't have access to a butterfly needle or numbing cream (both things I used due to a chronic fear of needles).

Very bright lights, strong scent of cleaner, often loud, overstimulating. They also didn't have very many food options for people with ARFID.

They give you a short amount to shower, which can be hard for people with low dexterity, and also wait outside with only a curtain, no door, which can be hard for sexual assault survivors.

They have only plastic sheets, which can be horrible for people with skin conditions or chronic pain. They had us share rooms, so it may be hard to sleep for people with hypersensitive hearing. Not to mention PTSD, and I can't imagine the dysphoria of being roomed with girls if I knew I was trans then.


• No shoelaces. No strings or straps on clothes. No piercings. I was not informed properly ahead of time and all of my clothes were confiscated. I wore scrubs.


• Can be boring. Very boring.


• Who will pay for it? Better have good insurance.


• I can't think of more, but there are certainly more cons than pros.




Hope this helps.
 
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It.. depends. We were Baker-Acted twice (USA). Lemme format a simple "pros and cons" list.

Keep in mind we were a minor at the time, so it may be different, but I have combined my experiences with ones from others to create this list. Still, use caution.



Pros:

• If you are non-judgmental person in the case of mental illness (you are on this website, so I assume you are at least a little bit), you may find some people you connect with. I found comfort in two people in particular, both diagnosed with schizophrenia. One more "mild," one more "severe."

A trans man named Evan, I believe, had a form of schizophrenia that caused his drawings to talk to him, full personality and all. He showed me his sketchbook, was very self aware. He was my first experience with trans people, back when I thought I myself was cis. He made a lasting impression on me, and I wish I had contact with him.

The second person was a girl with "full-blown" schizophrenia. Seeing people, voices, even delusions she was black (she was not). Everyone avoided her and.. I knew that feeling. So, we struck up conversation. She was very kind.

For adults, this will likely be much different, but I have heard stories of people who have found community as an adult. The tips I've gotten essentially say, when finding friends, don't focus too much on what disorders you share, that can lead to problems. Focus on your likes, hobbies. I connected with Evan over our shared love of art, for example.

Another note: In a mental hospital, you will find people who aren't very nice, sometimes even quite nasty. Try to avoid the "numb" ones who won't change no matter what. In my experience, if one is aggressively complaining about the food, I would pipe up something like "Ugh, I know the feeling." Their reaction to that shows a lot about a person.


A roll of the eyes: Avoid

Ignoring you: Likely avoid

Agree, nod to you, anything of the sort: Proceed with caution

Use your response to prove a point or escalate the situation: Definitely avoid

Get aggressive towards you in any way: RUN. This is why this may not be a good idea to try for just anyone.


If you don't have skills to read people, an institution may be harder to navigate for you.



• Typically has a set routine. If you are tired of the monotony of life, this is a con. If you have autism, anxiety, OCD, or just a love of routine, it's definitely a pro.


• If you do not want to harm yourself, it would be extremely hard to do so while there.


• Benefits for good behavior. This depends on where you go. The one I went to had an outdoor section, with a pool.

• Activities. This also depends on where you go. The place I was in focused very heavily on art. They also had reading, sometimes movies.


Cons:


• "Cavity searches." They have you take off your clothes and cough while squatting. Unsure what happens if you refuse.


• "Booty juice." That is what the people there called the anesthetic (administered in the buttock) for aggression. I assume this is different for adults but I'm not sure enough to leave it off this list.

• Ironically, not very disability accessible. Took away my Fidget Cube I used for my autism/ADHD, claiming it could be used as a weapon (yet gave us sharpened pencils).

Floors are slippery. They took our blood the first day there, and didn't have access to a butterfly needle or numbing cream (both things I used due to a chronic fear of needles).

Very bright lights, strong scent of cleaner, often loud, overstimulating. They also didn't have very many food options for people with ARFID.

They give you a short amount to shower, which can be hard for people with low dexterity, and also wait outside with only a curtain, no door, which can be hard for sexual assault survivors.

They have only plastic sheets, which can be horrible for people with skin conditions or chronic pain. They had us share rooms, so it may be hard to sleep for people with hypersensitive hearing. Not to mention PTSD, and I can't imagine the dysphoria of being roomed with girls if I knew I was trans then.


• No shoelaces. No strings or straps on clothes. No piercings. I was not informed properly ahead of time and all of my clothes were confiscated. I wore scrubs.


• Can be boring. Very boring.


• Who will pay for it? Better have good insurance.


• I can't think of more, but there are certainly more cons than pros.




Hope this helps.
I totally agree about the insurance aspect. One of my 2 week stays in the hospital was over $57,000 U.S. dollars and insurance had to pay it all, thank heavens.

Walter
 
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Just like others said, it strongly depends on the hospital.
I've got hospitalized at a closed psych ward for children when I was a suicidal teen. This place was literal hell.
Two years ago I was at different one and it was okay.

I've also heard other patient's really positive expierences with some hospitals, so it's very unique.
You can try to search reviews on google and view pictures of the interior/rooms and therapeutic services of your nearest psych wards.

This might make the decision a bit easier for you and it's better to go there voluntarily.
 
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Just like others said, it strongly depends on the hospital.
I've got hospitalized at a closed psych ward for children when I was a suicidal teen. This place was literal hell.
Two years ago I was at different one and it was okay.

I've also heard other patient's really positive expierences with some hospitals, so it's very unique.
You can try to search reviews on google and view pictures of the interior/rooms and therapeutic services of your nearest psych wards.

This might make the decision a bit easier for you and it's better to go there voluntarily.
I totally agree with the voluntarily aspect rather than having the police take one to the hospital. One time with the police it was degrading, and the police were NOT thoughtful or considerate at all.

Another time when I was at my medical clinic, they suggested that I go in and i went to ER and did the paperwork and went in. MUCH better experience for sure.

Walter
 
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brokeandbroken

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Basically like the dentist probably a little uncomfortable, very boring, and a little too invasive. But you can't leave and the drugs don't make you laugh. They might make the staff though. Oh unlike the dentist they don't give a shit about you and detest the fact you are there with every ounce of their being.
 
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