What do you do when you find a good source?

[PassingThrough]

I mean an online source for something useful. Examples: SN, antiemetics, benzos, Propranolol, whatever.

Obviously you shouldn't post it in the forum, but do you share it with others? With everyone or just certain people?

I always have the fear that someone I'm chatting with has nefarious intentions: I worry that If I tell them the name/link of a source, this information will find its way to The Powers That Be and another good source would go poof. This seems especially important nowadays because in the last few years sources have been disappearing left and right. But on the other hand, a good source is somewhat pointless if nobody knows about it...

So what do you do when you come across a good source?

 

[FromGermany]

With the exception of bad or two-faced people I would give it everybody with PM. Why not? A forum is not for the few but for the many. I have been asked a couple of times, and I did it, because I have no problem with that. Sources are not my own property. They are for the good for the people.

Unfortunately, you never know. One person I gave the N source from the PPH some days ago because she was so desperate for that to help that person.

Today this ungrateful person is spreading the conspiracy theory on the forum, I am a pro-live-mole or whatsoever, only because she can't accept facts about a method, in this case the exit bag gas method.

So give sources away with PM, as long as you know, the sources are real, but be prepared for the usual disappointments with human beings.

 

[Circles]

Honestly I wouldn't trust anybody nowadays as so many sources have disappeared all because people here trust strangers too easily. You don't know who anybody is behind their screen and username and you sure as shit don't know their true intentions. I wouldn't automatically trust new members but who the hell knows if there are long time members here who are secretly pro life and trying to sabotage any source.

I've gotten so paranoid about the whole sourcing situation that if you aren't talking to these members and getting know them some at the very least then you're risking the possibility of giving a source to complete strangers who all has to do is lie and make up a sob story and say they need to die desperately. And honestly most people aren't going to try talk or get to know each other just to feel safe enough to give out a source because they all want it 'now' and will say they can't wait any longer.

 

[Flying Away]

Honestly I wouldn't trust anybody nowadays as so many sources have disappeared all because people here trust strangers too easily. You don't know who anybody is behind their screen and username and you sure as shit don't know their true intentions. I wouldn't automatically trust new members but who the hell knows if there are long time members here who are secretly pro life and trying to sabotage any source.

I've gotten so paranoid about the whole sourcing situation that if you aren't talking to these members and getting know them some at the very least then you're risking the possibility of giving a source to complete strangers who all has to do is lie and make up a sob story and say they need to die desperately. And honestly most people aren't going to try talk or get to know each other just to feel safe enough to give out a source because they all want it 'now' and will say they can't wait any longer.

Sometimes people have tried and on numerous occasions. Once finding as they feel there is an end in sight and may sound desperate but that's because they are. I thought we were all about helping each other out.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

Unfortunately, you never know. One person I gave the N source from the PPH some days ago because she was so desperate for that to help that person.

Today this ungrateful person is spreading the conspiracy theory on the forum, I am a pro-live-mole or whatsoever, only because she can't accept facts about a method, in this case the exit bag gas method.

I know exactly who you are talking about. They also sent me messages. I felt bad so I tried to help them out. That turned out to be a mistake. They are going around spreading blatant misinformation and jeopardizing other people's ability to source N. I told them to stop doing this and they said they will do whatever they feel like.

To the OP, I would be very careful in sharing sensitive information. There is no way of knowing what someone's true intentions are.

 

[Flying Away]

I know exactly who you are talking about. They also sent me messages. I felt bad so I tried to help them out. That turned out to be a mistake. They are going around spreading blatant misinformation and jeopardizing other people's ability to source N. I told them to stop doing this and they said they will do whatever they feel like.

To the OP, I would be very careful in sharing sensitive information. There is no way of knowing what someone's true intentions are.

What do these people hope to achieve? What gives them the right to decide what we do with our llives.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

What do these people hope to achieve? What gives them the right to decide what we do with our llives.

They are extremely entitled and selfish. It sounds like they are unable to ctb so they want to sow doubt to others as well. This place should remain neutral and just provide facts and information.

 

[Flying Away]

They are extremely entitled and selfish. It sounds like they are unable to ctb so they want to sow doubt to others as well. This place should remain neutral and just provide facts and information.

Amen to that.

 

[Circles]

Sometimes people have tried and on numerous occasions. Once finding as they feel there is an end in sight and may sound desperate but that's because they are. I thought we were all about helping each other out.

Well I've become cynical enough after being here for a while to realize you can't help everyone out and you sure can't trust everyone. Bottom line is there are people on here who have and still are trying to sabotage any methods especially the fixthe26 folks. If you trust literally everyone then I don't know what to say to that. And like I said before people on here trust strangers too easily for some weird reason.

 

[Flying Away]

Well I've become cynical enough after being here for a while to realize you can't help everyone out and you sure can't trust everyone. Bottom line is there are people on here who have and still are trying to sabotage any methods especially the fixthe26 folks. If you trust literally everyone then I don't know what to say to that. And like I said before people on here trust strangers too easily for some weird reason.

Hard to trust when you are at the end of your tether. Don't know what fixthe26 is but it's not for others to decide our fate

 

[FromGermany]

Fixthe26 is an insane propaganda rag, which declared war on SS.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

If you trust literally everyone then I don't know what to say to that. And like I said before people on here trust strangers too easily for some weird reason.

This is one of the only places suicidal people feel understood. Not to mention we are all desperate. So it is common to have your guard down. I know this place has a hands off approach when it comes to moderation but the admins really need to put some basic rules in place.

 

[Flying Away]

Fixthe26 is an insane propaganda rag, which declared war on SS.

Ok. Thank you. These idiots need to mind their own business.

This is one of the only places suicidal people feel understood. Not to mention we are all desperate. So it is common to have your guard down. I know this place has a hands off approach when it comes to moderation but the admins really need to put some basic rules in place.

What rules would you like to see. Should be moderation not censorship after all.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

What rules would you like to see. Should be moderation not censorship after all.

Actually do something about scammers and shady posters. Delete threads that spread misinformation and fear mongering. Encourage self research instead of asking to be spoon fed. There are tons of little things that could be done but probably won't.

I am very grateful to this place. It is the only place that I ever felt understood. It also provided me valuable information on methods and materials. But it took me weeks of research to figure this stuff out. People need to be more patient and practice discretion.

 

[Flying Away]

Actually do something about scammers and shady posters. Delete threads that spread misinformation and fear mongering. Encourage self research instead of asking to be spoon fed. There are tons of little things that could be done but probably won't.

I am very grateful to this place. It is the only place that I ever felt understood. It also provided me valuable information on methods and materials. But it took me weeks of research to figure this stuff out. People need to be more patient and practice discretion.

I agree with most of that. Misinformation is a big issue for me and needs to be stamped out. Research is imperative.

 

[FromGermany]

Misinformation can be battled with telling the true facts, regardless, if there is backlash from some people or not. I don't care.

For me it's about the health of people in many cases, and there is no more danger to the readers than if someone is spreading dangerous superficial knowledge but suggesting, this is the real thing as if there is a desire to see people suffering with failures or just being sloppy with the facts.

 

[PassingThrough]

I opened this thread because I found an SN source. But now, looking closer at it, I see that they also sell other, really dangerous chemicals. Maybe that's a good reason not to share it with anyone - I don't want to be responsible for someone around here blowing up their apartment complex...