SuicidalOrganism
Experienced
- May 31, 2023
- 223
its an online reddit community for suicidal people to go there, just like this forum but is more knownContext? pls
I was fine with not getting responses to my posts. Until I discovered why nobody was responding: I looked for my posts one time without logging in first and realised they had all been hidden from other members.
Haha "join the military", "go hiking", "find your passion". Classic.On the off-chance you're lucky enough that your post, among the thousands of other posts that flood the sub every millisecond, actually catches a few people's attention, the majority of their advice is either "Go see a therapist' or "Have you tried meditation?". I'd argue there are worse subs. A lot of the other self-improvement subs have a bunch of people trying to hawk their new-age books and online courses. The absolute best advice I've ever gotten on there is people telling me to go join the military, so I guess that says something.
yes and if u say ur a minor there theres a high chance you will get dm'ed by pedosused to vent a Lot there. got ignored almost all the time apart from the few times someone i know irl found them (which is somehow worse than being ignored..). probably because i was expressing thoughts - from a deeply dark and distressed place, but still only thoughts nonetheless - rather than a plan or similar. seems like it tends to be that the posts that actually get traction are the ones that are like 'goodbye' or 'dying in 10 mins' - the perfect wake-up call for people to try and swoop in and be saviours. ok that's a little cynical.. but reading the reactions to some posts it really does feel like that.
also people can sometimes just ignore (or more accurately read, and care, but not write in reply) because it's hard to know what to write. like you can't wish people peace even when/though the situation is completely out of your control, and it does seem like you're expected to either give platitudes or 'have you tried..?' and so on. and while simple empathising is possible, i've seen too many cases of people starting with that and then making it about them and how things got better for them - which.. i see the intent to provide hope, but they and the poster are just not the same person.
also the reddit cares messages people sent. self-explanatory
don't get me wrong, there are some people who push against platitudes - some, for example, emending 'it gets better' as 'it can get better'. i don't know how much that emendation in particular changes, but it sure is better than people pretending they know the poster's life
lowkey i really could have used sasu back then when i was posting, even just to avoid the false alarm i gave of my imminent ctb because i truly didn't know until the last moment that anyone advertising n to my country was 100% a scammer.. that said if my vents are annoying now they were 100x worse and more repetitive back then..
.... how delightfulyes and if u say ur a minor there theres a high chance you will get dm'ed by pedos