Discussion What are your opinions on making arrangements

[ghostspace]

What are your post-CTB arrangements? What possessions are you leaving for loved ones, if at all, and do you personally feel like it's your responsibility to clear out your living space and save for funeral/burial expenses?

No wrong answers, I've just been planning things out and felt curious as to what 'making arrangements' might look for others.

 

[Deformationalplagio]

I dont really mind what happens after my dead with everything. Im just gonna make sure my search history is deleted lol

 

[Lostnotfound]

I'll be dead - 'loved ones' didn't give a shit about me whilst I was alive so why should I give a shit about them when I'm dead. They caused this mess so let them clear it up

 

[NotMeantForHere]

Never really gave this much thought. Mostly I've been so focused on making sure I have a way out, since a reliable and peaceful death seems so hard for us to achieve in this society. I think i'd just let them rummage through everthing and decide what they want.

 

[Clut]

I've written a will so all my 'stuff' will be taken care of. I'll make sure everything is in order before I go. If my family want a funeral which I think they will, there will be money from my estate to pay for it. I'm not sure what else I can do but any suggestions are welcome

 

[ghostspace]

I've been getting rid of things that are unnecessary; anything that's not sentimental or useful gets donated or thrown out. I don't want people having to go through a lot of rubbish, as I do have people who truly care and would be traumatized and devastated. I'm going to arrange for a cleaning service to come in before I leave my apartment for the last time so my family gets the deposit back and doesn't have to be in there more than they need to.

Most importantly, I've made multiple arrangements for my cats so that either my sister or my friends will take them both in. I want them to stay together and be loved by people who were close to me.

 

[Natsu Suki]

I plan on wiping my ssd's, already got rid of all my unnecessary valueless possessions, wrote a will leaving all my assets to my family, and a note that i haven't quite decided the contents of but have a few drafts. Not that anyone will care about my note and my family won't care about my possessions but i don't need to worry about that.

Edit: Still have lot more to do though :)

 

[ShaMD]

Have all my passwords to accounts they may need access to, with phone numbers and details to call to have loans dispersed. Planning on leaving behind a stack of cash for funeral expenses. A letter explaining any and all questions I've found people have after people CTB. Cleaning out all my belongings the day of that are valueless. Will leave a written will signing over my valuables. I'm sure there are more things to plan, but I still have time.