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LifeIsASadist

LifeIsASadist

This world is disgusting
Oct 16, 2024
308
Did a one night stand with finally someone my age and since I am bi, it was another male. He was such a sweet guy and we were building tension before we did our actual (thing) and holy hell after all the years of homophobia I had (ended in 2021), I realized I am actually bisexual and DIDN'T EVER think I would come to this.

Unfortunately I will have to keep it a secret from my family because they aren't very fond with the LGBTQ+ due to being conservative catholics. I can't even tell my most "trusted" family about this. So for now, I am heading home at 4:00AM and plan to LARP about why I was gone.
 
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tonicer

tonicer

Member
Nov 13, 2025
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That's great for you. :)

Just a little side note being bi and LGBTQ+ doesn't have to be the same. I know a few gay/bi people and they distance themselves from the LGBTQ+ crowd since they are so in your face about it all and the people i know want to keep their sexuality private which is better in my humble opinion since there is nothing more private and personal than sexuality.

I consider myself more conservative too but i don't think bad about anyone who doesn't harm others and between consenting adults love is love.
 
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SnowyWeather

SnowyWeather

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Feb 12, 2026
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Congrats @LifeIsASadist ! Mirin hard, sorry you can't tell your family, I'm in a similar situation but I'm still khhv šŸ˜”
Happy for you tho!
 
ummagumma

ummagumma

Student
Jan 11, 2024
100
congratulations! its really cool that it has been a nice experience for you. sorry about your family tho, everyone deserve to be respected no matter their sexual orientation. but i heard that the pope himself has shifted the vaticans opinion on gays, like he stated that homosexuals are too children of god and that being gay is not a crime. so maybe the opinion of your family will change too? and maybe someday you will open up to them and they will accept you? im a little bit delulu, hahaha