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jojobanana
Student
- Oct 8, 2023
- 150
So I was not home when my dsl welfare happened. My housemate was at home when police came looking for a substance. I have been known to emergency crew since my last attempt in november. Other than that i've had limited interaction with them and have never received a welfare check. I was under the impression that when you receive a welfare check the purpose is to assure that you're safe and not in immediate danger. But some strange things happened during my welfare check and i'm not sure what to do as my housemate is slowly revealing more details about what happened. I haven't wanted to pry as I felt the whole thing was embarrassing and felt bad. Here are some things that happened that I don't understand
1. I got a call from the police asking if i had ordered anything I wasn't supposed to have. Initially denied this as it was random and I wasn't even aware they were at my house. But I later told them I had ordered something as they kept ringing me and asking. at this point my housemate let them in the house. (i also told them i hadn't received it.
2. My housemate denied them entry but they refused to leave. They said they had to check the house as they suspect something that could cause harm was ordered and even said that it could be used to make bombs. I felt like this is odd to use this as an additional reason because it's implying that I could have criminal intentions. This can be said for anyone that has a kitchen knife in their house?
3. They searched my house for an hour and even searched my mailbox and i gave them permission to do this. They followed my housemate everywhere and wouldn't leave him out of their site.
4. They even told my housemate to take down our door cam to see if there's any footage on it. Why?
5. Also there was 3 police officers. That seems a bit much for a welfare check?
I haven't had any good experiences with emergency services. I don't know why I would go to them if I felt unsafe and now this feels more true. Why would I tell them I have a substance that I want to use to kill myself if it seems like they're already treating me like a criminal. I have no criminal record or cautions or have been involved in anything violent in my life. i don't understand this? i found it funny that they eventually left after over an hour after one of them said this could make her worse. like yeah??
1. I got a call from the police asking if i had ordered anything I wasn't supposed to have. Initially denied this as it was random and I wasn't even aware they were at my house. But I later told them I had ordered something as they kept ringing me and asking. at this point my housemate let them in the house. (i also told them i hadn't received it.
2. My housemate denied them entry but they refused to leave. They said they had to check the house as they suspect something that could cause harm was ordered and even said that it could be used to make bombs. I felt like this is odd to use this as an additional reason because it's implying that I could have criminal intentions. This can be said for anyone that has a kitchen knife in their house?
3. They searched my house for an hour and even searched my mailbox and i gave them permission to do this. They followed my housemate everywhere and wouldn't leave him out of their site.
4. They even told my housemate to take down our door cam to see if there's any footage on it. Why?
5. Also there was 3 police officers. That seems a bit much for a welfare check?
I haven't had any good experiences with emergency services. I don't know why I would go to them if I felt unsafe and now this feels more true. Why would I tell them I have a substance that I want to use to kill myself if it seems like they're already treating me like a criminal. I have no criminal record or cautions or have been involved in anything violent in my life. i don't understand this? i found it funny that they eventually left after over an hour after one of them said this could make her worse. like yeah??