xriddlex
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- Jan 26, 2026
- 14
Hello! This is my second post on here, and I really need some tips on how to get my friend back. I will start by giving a bit of an idea of the situation. Also my second time posting this but I did it wrongly.
This male friend and I (female), have been friends since April of last year. At the start we were in a situationship or something similar, but it was starting to get really serious. Then suddenly he did not like me anymore and that he wasnt ready for a relationship (ex cheated among other things), and he broke my heart. Anyways we were normal friends for a month and then he started to flirt with me, in which i returned it. Then he did the same thing as before and we kinda argued. I think we have done this like three more times after.
Last time we argued like this was on my birthday which was this month, and he needed some time to think. This was right after we met for the second time, as we are long distance. First time was Nov 28th. That time we cuddled a tiny bit but this second time we were cuddling 90% of the time and were really loving. It was the most happy I have been in years. Then, as I mentioned, we had that argument right after meeting on my birthday. I waited for two weeks for an answer, and I got mad because why should I have to wait two weeks to get an answer as to if I am worth it or not? So I confronted him almost two weeks ago. He also said some strange things, some mean things too. I made a mistake in which I was very impulsive and wrote a long message about how he made me feel negatively, but that I cared about him and loved him as my friend and would want him to reach out to me as I had deleted him, not blocked, on everything. I suppose I wanted him to fight for me too? I am also generally a very impulsive person when I feel things deeply, which I do with him a lot. I realized earlier that he is only a friend to me too.
Now he even refuses to hear me out, usually just blocking me if i try to reach out or tell me to stop contacting him and leave him alone. Even my friend tried to contact him and he told her to tell me that he had a heart attack and he had a reason to block me and etc. he wont tell anyone this reason and only said bye whenever she tried to say something.
We are giving him a week to calm down, and I am messaging him on thursday again. I sent a letter last week and I am guessing it will also arrive at his mailbox in the next couple of days.
What should i do about this? He is my entire world and my last reason to stay alive, if he refuses to talk to me I will just have to die because he was the only hope I had left in this miserable life. Does anyone have any tips on getting him to listen? He is very stubborn and he said he gave up. I just want him to give me one last chance.. He is my family
This male friend and I (female), have been friends since April of last year. At the start we were in a situationship or something similar, but it was starting to get really serious. Then suddenly he did not like me anymore and that he wasnt ready for a relationship (ex cheated among other things), and he broke my heart. Anyways we were normal friends for a month and then he started to flirt with me, in which i returned it. Then he did the same thing as before and we kinda argued. I think we have done this like three more times after.
Last time we argued like this was on my birthday which was this month, and he needed some time to think. This was right after we met for the second time, as we are long distance. First time was Nov 28th. That time we cuddled a tiny bit but this second time we were cuddling 90% of the time and were really loving. It was the most happy I have been in years. Then, as I mentioned, we had that argument right after meeting on my birthday. I waited for two weeks for an answer, and I got mad because why should I have to wait two weeks to get an answer as to if I am worth it or not? So I confronted him almost two weeks ago. He also said some strange things, some mean things too. I made a mistake in which I was very impulsive and wrote a long message about how he made me feel negatively, but that I cared about him and loved him as my friend and would want him to reach out to me as I had deleted him, not blocked, on everything. I suppose I wanted him to fight for me too? I am also generally a very impulsive person when I feel things deeply, which I do with him a lot. I realized earlier that he is only a friend to me too.
Now he even refuses to hear me out, usually just blocking me if i try to reach out or tell me to stop contacting him and leave him alone. Even my friend tried to contact him and he told her to tell me that he had a heart attack and he had a reason to block me and etc. he wont tell anyone this reason and only said bye whenever she tried to say something.
We are giving him a week to calm down, and I am messaging him on thursday again. I sent a letter last week and I am guessing it will also arrive at his mailbox in the next couple of days.
What should i do about this? He is my entire world and my last reason to stay alive, if he refuses to talk to me I will just have to die because he was the only hope I had left in this miserable life. Does anyone have any tips on getting him to listen? He is very stubborn and he said he gave up. I just want him to give me one last chance.. He is my family
