Venting ugly girls club

[toro]

being like an actually legitimately ugly girl is probably one of the most embarrassing things about my life right now. i hate when people lie to your face and you can see them trying to invent a compliment but they genuinely have nothing to pick so its a 'ohh you have amazing eyes :)'. you cant acknowledge being ugly without people seeing it as a beg for attention but you cant try to make yourself prettier either because then its just cringe how hard you're trying and still looking like a mess. i am 20 years old and i look simultaneously 12 and 30, my nose is too big my top lip is too small and my eyes are too far apart. there is no value in existing in the world as someone who is both ugly and uninteresting, but that's my entire life. the only men that have ever been interested in me have been adults while i was a child or men that fixate on sex and wanting to hurt me and i just want to feel pretty so badly. ill never have sex because i hate myself and i refuse to let anyone see me in as disgusting a state as i am when im nude. every other 'ugly girl' out there has beautiful features and at the very least good humour but i may as well be made of cardboard. this post means nothing and adds nothing, i just wish i could take off every feature of my face so i could be left completely blank. if i ever do kill myself there wouldn't be a widespread sympathy for it like the beautiful victims get and I've made peace with that, some people are born to be ugly and left as the filler of society but i just wish so badly that i could've been pretty for even a day

 

[sadalways]

I feel pretty much the same (although i'm not a girl) about myself except nobody has ever complimented me in any way other than like a grandma saying i have nice eyelashes but don't beat yourself up over it too much. I know it's really hard if you don't like the way you look, these thoughts are absolute SHIT and i wish i could take them away from everyone. I don't know what you look like and i really understand that last sentence ESPECIALLY, but everyone has their ups and downs. The models that do look """""""""perfect""""""""" and i use this word very... carefully? because ain't nobody is perfect, but besides that they probably have shit personalities and their whole thing is them just looking "good". Which is boring. And even then everyone has their own tastes and different views on beauty.

 

[TheHolySword]

I understand your feelings. There is only one person who ever legitimately found me beautiful, but I ruined things with her. I can't even look in a mirror with crying anymore. I hate myself so much, I wish I could be pretty.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I'm also not that good-looking. I haven't really been hit on irl that many times in my life (only about 3 times in total and only once as an adult). My face is kind of fat-looking and very round and my under eyes are dark. My eyebrows are weirdly shaped and my lips are large. I also have an overbite. My breasts aren't perky, my ass is small, my hands and feet are large, and my lower legs are covered in bumps and scars due to my habit of plucking my leg hair. The only bright side is that I look young for my age (I'm 21 but people tend to mistake me for being 15) so people tend to go easy on me.

 

[SVEN]

I'm also not that good-looking. I haven't really been hit on irl that many times in my life (only about 3 times in total and only once as an adult). My face is kind of fat-looking and very round and my under eyes are dark. My eyebrows are weirdly shaped and my lips are large. I also have an overbite. My breasts aren't perky, my ass is small, my hands and feet are large, and my lower legs are covered in bumps and scars due to my habit of plucking my leg hair. The only bright side is that I look young for my age (I'm 21 but people tend to mistake me for being 15) so people tend to go easy on me.

Jesters make it on their ready wit & in depth mental resources, trust me.

 

[divinemistress36]

I bet you arent as ugly as you think you are

 

[maniac116]

A persons true beauty comes from the inside. I've gone out with beautiful looking people who were absolute pigs on the inside!
My 3 longterm relationships were with people just average look but they all were beautiful on the inside & wonderful to be around.
Don't beat yourself up too much. Our TV & movies are generally setting a terrible example. Be yourself & unleash your inner beauty!

 

[ctemourge]

relate.
i only get compliments on my hair. so i cut it. i hate the sight of myself, but so does everyone else so who can i blame lol

 

[_Maya]

Pretty privilege is real, people treat you like literal shit if you aren't beautiful enough for them. Its so degrading, especially with someone like me who has crooked teeth and Bilirubin syndrome which causes my skin and eyes to become yellow. Anytime I look in the mirror i just want to claw at my own skin and eyes, especially with gender dysphoria, its just salt in the wound.

 

[ihatemyselfsomuch]

If you're a girl under the age of 25 it's practically impossible to be ugly so long as you are not overweight.

Older women - including those who aren't necessarily ugly - are who I feel sorry for because the degree to which youth is emphasised in female attractiveness is insane. And of course age is something which you cannot change.