stationarymillennial
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- Aug 4, 2020
- 65
Hey guys. I hope this post finds you relatively well. I'd like to know how you guys are handling tying up loose ends with friends and family. I don't speak with all of my family members, but there are some that are on good terms with me now, and I don't want to leave and have it be a surprise for them. I find this important for me because without knowing that I at least made an effort to say goodbye in some form, I don't know if I can CTB, or at least CTB with as much peace of mind as possible.
Do you agree? Is it important to you to say goodbye or tie up loose ends with friends, family, or someone? Thank you to the admins and you guys for giving me this space to talk.
Edit because I forgot key details: My mom says she would blame herself and wants me to wait for her to die. I think that's... not the greatest outcome, but what did I expect? What mother wants her child to die? She says she would blame herself, and I told her it's not her fault, although she is/was a severe alcoholic and did contribute to some sorrow in my life. I'm not going to tell her that, though. My sister is more understanding. I found these conversations extremely difficult.
Do you agree? Is it important to you to say goodbye or tie up loose ends with friends, family, or someone? Thank you to the admins and you guys for giving me this space to talk.
Edit because I forgot key details: My mom says she would blame herself and wants me to wait for her to die. I think that's... not the greatest outcome, but what did I expect? What mother wants her child to die? She says she would blame herself, and I told her it's not her fault, although she is/was a severe alcoholic and did contribute to some sorrow in my life. I'm not going to tell her that, though. My sister is more understanding. I found these conversations extremely difficult.