Two people I loved dearly left me these past few days

[chocosyrup]

So yesterday a guy I was really into ended up just being a player, we were exchanging lovey messages and talking about like "oh we should get married" and just flirting alot, but after some digging I found out he sent stuff like that to alot of other girls. I knew him for over a year and was really hurt when I found this out.
Today, another very close friend of mine who I often talk to and send random stuff to told me that they don't feel anything from talking to me - they recognise that I'm really happy and excited to talk to them but said that they find it empty when they talk to me. I don't get this because I thought we were matching energy. We often talked about how we felt and messaged each other when we were down and often played games and stuff together - but today I lost that friend just because I'm me.
Really in the shitter right now. I don't know what I did wrong.
This week was really fucking shit.

 

[Unattainable666]

So yesterday a guy I was really into ended up just being a player, we were exchanging lovey messages and talking about like "oh we should get married" and just flirting alot, but after some digging I found out he sent stuff like that to alot of other girls. I knew him for over a year and was really hurt when I found this out.
Today, another very close friend of mine who I often talk to and send random stuff to told me that they don't feel anything from talking to me - they recognise that I'm really happy and excited to talk to them but said that they find it empty when they talk to me. I don't get this because I thought we were matching energy. We often talked about how we felt and messaged each other when we were down and often played games and stuff together - but today I lost that friend just because I'm me.
Really in the shitter right now. I don't know what I did wrong.
This week was really fucking shit.

By any chance did you meet them here on SS?

 

[chocosyrup]

By any chance did you meet them here on SS?

I didn't, no.

 

[Unattainable666]

I didn't, no.

I understand how you feel. I've met a couple of people here who have done the same. Trust comes easy to me so I get hurt a lot

 

[Life_and_Death]

reading what youre going through and your signature. youre free to pm me if you want

 

[chocosyrup]

I understand how you feel. I've met a couple of people here who have done the same. Trust comes easy to me so I get hurt a lot

Yeah I'm easy to hurt - but it doesn't help that people go out of their way to do it anyway. Hope you feel better now.

 

[Unattainable666]

Yeah I'm easy to hurt - but it doesn't help that people go out of their way to do it anyway. Hope you feel better now.

I agree with you 100%. Take care of yourself. You are obviously a good person. I'm sorry this happened to you.