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nolifeleft

nolifeleft

exhausted
Aug 20, 2023
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i first tried to kill myself with my moms scarf in the closet of our 1 bedroom apartment while she was in bed watching tv. i was nine and it was a pathetic attempt, obviously wouldnt've worked and i just ended up ripping her scarf. she was upset with the results of her scarf, but didn't really care for what i'd done. i then tried, with extremely pathetic attempts, every summer after that. they were weak attempts, ones that obviously wouldnt've worked, but looking back now, i think they were done with the hopes that one of my parents would walk in mid-attempt and try to save me. definitive proof they cared.

when i was in fourth grade, i wrote a future suicide note. i wrote about how i planned to kill myself on my sixteenth birthday. i wanted to leave it in my desk for a teacher to see and be alarmed, but i didn't out of fear of repercussion. i just wanted someone to care. when my sixteenth birthday came around, i was kind of happy that day, so i didn't go through with it. i remember feeling dreadful the day after because i had failed my younger self by not ending my life.

in august 2023, i really tried to kill myself. this wasn't a weak pathetic attempt in hopes that someone would walk in and finally demonstrate concern for my wellbeing, this was a real, meaningful attempt. my cat started clawing at the door as i began to lose oxygen and so i decided to undo the makeshift rope i was using. i almost died. i really, almost would have died.

now i have four hours until my birthday. every birthday since my sixteenth has felt like i have disappointed my younger self. i don't want to get older, i don't want to be young again. i don't want to be. im so tired of the weight of being alive. i just want to sleep forever. i love my cats and they keep me alive and help me create a vision for the future. if i didn't have them i'd be dead right now, but sometimes i wish they weren't here with me. i'd feel more free and able to disappear. living alone is also so lonely. i like having someone to care for, and they love me a lot. they care.

happy (almost) 22nd birthday to me. let me know if you relate to the weak attempts. i just wanted someone to notice, y'know?
 
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flkywch

flkywch

Member
Jan 19, 2025
21
i read the whole post and noticed you, happy 22 when it comes. i can't relate to the weak attempts at all unfortunately. my survival instinct is way too strong. but either way i hope you find whatever lifts you up
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ I'm............
Jul 1, 2020
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now i have four hours until my birthday. every birthday since my sixteenth has felt like i have disappointed my younger self. i don't want to get older, i don't want to be young again. i don't want to be. im so tired of the weight of being alive.
i relate to this. 🫂
 
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UnnervedCompany

UnnervedCompany

Student
Jun 21, 2024
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I noticed and thank you for sharing your story. Your younger selves are not static people they can grow and they would not be disappointed at your current actions because they would undeerstand. Do not feel you disappointed them.
 
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OTanerd

Member
Jan 15, 2025
57
Thank you for your story. My suicide attempts have been as pathetic and weak as possible. I once tried to kill myself by stopping eating and drinking (known as VSED), believing in the myth that after 3 days you were dead. About 7 days went by and I felt nothing, only my heart was pounding harder and my desire to drink water won me over unfortunately.
Now I know that this method has a very low success rate. If all goes well this will end in early February with SN.
 
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meltskelt

meltskelt

who?
Aug 11, 2023
93
to stay alive is scary, to die is scary. All of this makes us feel terible. I'm sorry u are not okay... We have a close age and god how I wish I could hug u and say " I see you"
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
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I'm sorry you had to go through all this.

🎂 HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂

We're here for you! :heart:
 
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