Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
390
Obviously, there's a couple of personalities here, from time to time or even constantly, who are just happy with trolling suicidal people.
I don't mean those who post sarcastic comments - that is often unavoidable, as ending one's life does have its comical aspects.
I don't mean those who posts stories about how dissatisfying, deadly or even impossible suicide is, as long as they are honest pro-lifers, which is in itself not such a bad attitude to life.
I mean the ones who will eagerly and often endlessly discuss the subject as if they were serious about it, who will repeat senseless questions, play dumb, spread panic or otherwise become a nuisance.
This is often hard to discern, here more than elsewhere on the Web - as we all suffer from helper syndrome here, automatically assuming that people who come here actually need help.
In fact, I recently had the impression that this place is becoming a fad-joint for perverse hipster types who will gladly spend a few minutes having fun by posing senseless questions.
Be aware of this, and never feed a troll.
Meaningless or provocative questions simply deserve no answers - you should always be highly critical of new members and be very careful of private messages...
I think it won't hurt if potential trolls are called out and examined by the community.
 
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ddutch

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Oct 28, 2018
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Obviously, there's a couple of personalities here, from time to time or even constantly, who are just happy with trolling suicidal people.
I don't mean those who post sarcastic comments - that is often unavoidable, as ending one's life does have its comical aspects.
I don't mean those who posts stories about how dissatisfying, deadly or even impossible suicide is, as long as they are honest pro-lifers, which is in itself not such a bad attitude to life.
I mean the ones who will eagerly and often endlessly discuss the subject as if they were serious about it, who will repeat senseless questions, play dumb, spread panic or otherwise become a nuisance.
This is often hard to discern, here more than elsewhere on the Web - as we all suffer from helper syndrome here, automatically assuming that people who come here actually need help.
In fact, I recently had the impression that this place is becoming a fad-joint for perverse hipster types who will gladly spend a few minutes having fun by posing senseless questions.
Be aware of this, and never feed a troll.
Meaningless or provocative questions simply deserve no answers - you should always be highly critical of new members and be very careful of private messages...
I think it won't hurt if potential trolls are called out and examined by the community.

Totally agree on this.

Point them out if people trols send weird private messages then this must be reported to the administrators here.

To many weird fueling behavior happened here last weekend and it was dangerous.

So dont believe everything dont follow people blindly.
 
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i don't mean to infer fear by writing this, but an older user has said a post was made on blackhatworld in March by someone looking to purchase 100 usernames on this forum, 25 cents an alt.


there exist people here who will utilise multiple accounts to manipulate and prompt early ctbs from people to satisfy their own perverse pro-death criteria. it happened recently.
 
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ddutch

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Oct 28, 2018
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Their where to many new people here during the whole thing to weird questions and actions. Thats why it is best not give out to much info on anything here.
 
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i don't mean to infer fear by writing this, but an older user has said a post was made on blackhatworld in March by someone looking to purchase 100 usernames on this forum, 25 cents an alt.


there exist people here who will utilise multiple accounts to manipulate and prompt early ctbs from people to satisfy their own perverse pro-death criteria. it happened recently.

Have you and/or the older user let our esteemed admins know about that? If not, please do. Thank you.
 
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SinisterKid

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I mean the ones who will eagerly and often endlessly discuss the subject as if they were serious about it, who will repeat senseless questions, play dumb, spread panic or otherwise become a nuisance.

DAMN, I have been rumbled, I am that person so beware of the troll, you have been warned :wink:
 
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whyidon'tknow

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Jun 9, 2019
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Only think i've come across one troll.

I would say be wary of people who are too supportive and that tell you ctb is "the only way"
 
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Only Me Here

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Obviously, there's a couple of personalities here, from time to time or even constantly, who are just happy with trolling suicidal people.
I don't mean those who post sarcastic comments - that is often unavoidable, as ending one's life does have its comical aspects.
I don't mean those who posts stories about how dissatisfying, deadly or even impossible suicide is, as long as they are honest pro-lifers, which is in itself not such a bad attitude to life.
I mean the ones who will eagerly and often endlessly discuss the subject as if they were serious about it, who will repeat senseless questions, play dumb, spread panic or otherwise become a nuisance.
This is often hard to discern, here more than elsewhere on the Web - as we all suffer from helper syndrome here, automatically assuming that people who come here actually need help.
In fact, I recently had the impression that this place is becoming a fad-joint for perverse hipster types who will gladly spend a few minutes having fun by posing senseless questions.
Be aware of this, and never feed a troll.
Meaningless or provocative questions simply deserve no answers - you should always be highly critical of new members and be very careful of private messages...
I think it won't hurt if potential trolls are called out and examined by the community.
Absolutely agree. The people who are passionately trying to explain that some of the accounts that have descended here lately are highly suspicious are doing so to calm people a bit, rather then feed into it.

It's coming from a good place although it may not appear that way with whats gone on in the last few days. If we were far more careful and didn't just believe everything people say as gospel, it wouldn't be necessary.

I think because we talk about very serious topics here, it lulls people into thinking they know someone well. Unfortunately, you can never know anyone well over the internet, you can only know what they chose to show you.

I've heard stories here from people who trusted someone and were hurt when they mistakenly put their faith in them.

We shouldn't have to have our guard up like this, but i think the biggest reason why people are here in the first place is that what should happen and what does happen, is rarely the same thing.
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
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I mean the ones who will eagerly and often endlessly discuss the subject as if they were serious about it, who will repeat senseless questions, play dumb, spread panic or otherwise become a nuisance.

DAMN, I have been rumbled, I am that person so beware of the troll, you have been warned :wink:

People can be involuntary, temporary trolls. It happens and should be forgiven ;))
Have you and/or the older user let our esteemed admins know about that? If not, please do. Thank you.

I think admins should have been aware of this problem since the beginning.
There's hardly a lot they can do, we are the ones who must do the detective work here.
It's in any case impossible to block people from coming back under a different alias, and start all over again, so...
Extinguishing the infection has to take place in our own brains ;)
Gardez-vous.
 
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jake3d

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May 29, 2019
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I would say be wary of people who are too supportive and that tell you ctb is "the only way"

This is why I try to keep a neutral stance whenever possible and show both sides of the coin. It's both to make sure that people are taking this decision on their own and keep myself out of trouble.

I think any other self-conscious individual would do the same.
 
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Soul

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I think admins should have been aware of this problem since the beginning.
There's hardly a lot they can do, we are the ones who must do the detective work here.
It's in any case impossible to block people from coming back under a different alias, and start all over again, so...
Extinguishing the infection has to take place in our own brains ;)
Gardez-vous.

Admins have more tools than we do to identify alts and recidivists. If we don't let them know about stuff like that we're only helping the wicked. Obviously we have to be cautious and alert but in my very strong opinion we have to report suspicious stuff as well. The admins can't read every post and pm. We have to alert them.
 
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Empty Smile

Empty Smile

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Jul 13, 2018
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EXCUSE ME! I'm not a troll, but even if I was, I'm a sexy one!!! 13696
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
390
I don't want to be boring, but if you're on the Internet to post funny gifs, then there's a coupe of social networks out there which offer much better content than this forum, and are also way more interactive. Definitely have a look at minds.com - and you all know facebook of course, though everybody go there at their own risk.
 
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I don't want to be boring, but if you're on the Internet to post funny gifs, then there's a coupe of social networks out there which offer much better content than this forum, and are also way more interactive. Definitely have a look at minds.com - and you all know facebook of course, though everybody go there at their own risk.

So are you against people here trying to make others smile despite what they are going through?

If you're looking for drama, there's a web site called Facebook. That site has plenty of it if you're into the soap opera thing.
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
390
So are you against people here trying to make others smile despite what they are going through?

If you're looking for drama, there's a web site called Facebook. That site has plenty of it if you're into the soap opera thing.

A bit of humor is always good, but these threads get hard to navigate fast.
So I'd rather say that we could create an extra thread for funny gifs - what about that for empty smiles ;)
 
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Pilum Muralis

“We'll never be as young as we are tonight.”
Jul 2, 2019
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I'm relatively new to the forums, but I've noticed, not only an increased number of new members since joining, but how direct and matter of factly many have asked where and how to get drugs (not N, necessarily) and what method to ctb. Almost like some kind set up for a "gotcha" moment.
I don't necessarily think it's LE. I swear it's some 'undercover' hack from Buzzfeed or Vice and in a couple weeks, there will be an article out called "I Spent A Week As Someone Suicidal On A Suicide Forum", and we'll all be painted as a bunch of ghoulish, morbid criminal losers, who murder people with silver tongues.
Then I look down at the number of guests viewing the forum, and it's sometimes 300+. I am rational in that I realize, like myself, they are most likely lurking and nervous about joining. They are in pain, and want information. Want to just vent, like I did, about their lives. Then I think they are a bunch of trolls, just mocking our pain. Curious looky loos gawking at the train wreck unfolding.
I hope I didn't offend anyone. That wasn't my intention. My meek self has always either admired or questioned direct people.
 
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Bagger

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Jun 18, 2019
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When i joined in, there was more or less same activity as today, but i DO see a difference in post quality if this is right word. First N from A paranoia, everyone just freaks out all over the place, and then there comes many many fast, low quality threads with obvious questions about N, SN and other things that was answered like hundred times before. Suspicious threads like i will do this, do that, choose method for me, etc. For me something is going on here. I'll just keep my mouth shut for a while, and see what's what.
 
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May 30, 2019
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i don't mean to infer fear by writing this, but an older user has said a post was made on blackhatworld in March by someone looking to purchase 100 usernames on this forum, 25 cents an alt.


there exist people here who will utilise multiple accounts to manipulate and prompt early ctbs from people to satisfy their own perverse pro-death criteria. it happened recently.
I knew he had to have started before the Shawn-drama. So many obvious fake accounts from March and April.
 
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ddutch

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Oct 28, 2018
396
I knew he had to have started before the Shawn-drama. So many obvious fake accounts from March and April.

To much it was like springbreak started only a sick way.

Springbreak, whooooo yeah. can you give me 4 suicides 1 rope 1 sn and 2 N with ice please
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
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When i joined in, there was more or less same activity as today, but i DO see a difference in post quality if this is right word. First N from A paranoia, everyone just freaks out all over the place, and then there comes many many fast, low quality threads with obvious questions about N, SN and other things that was answered like hundred times before. Suspicious threads like i will do this, do that, choose method for me, etc. For me something is going on here. I'll just keep my mouth shut for a while, and see what's what.

Well, yes... too many red signals. Some paranoia. I'm no longer answering any repetitive questions, either. Just wait and watch.
 
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SinisterKid

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I do find it sad that some members do appear to be so lazy, they will not read the many resources that are available to them here. So it does appear on the surface sometimes to be a ever decreasing circle of repetitive questions. I try to just direct the poster to the corresponding resource page but sometimes I do feel like not bothering.
 
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Miserable

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Jul 14, 2019
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not sure what's meant by this. new here, hope i didn't do anything trolly
I'm here cause i'm just ruined and sad. I want to die but I wait cause i still have a touch of hope. Thinking about suicide gives me a sense of comfort and talking to people who feel that way will helps more than talking to depressed people who are "trying to get better"
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
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not sure what's meant by this. new here, hope i didn't do anything trolly
I'm here cause i'm just ruined and sad. I want to die but I wait cause i still have a touch of hope. Thinking about suicide gives me a sense of comfort and talking to people who feel that way will helps more than talking to depressed people who are "trying to get better"

All of life is hope, and a good deal is illusion. That's normal - not suicidal. I believe that thinking about suicide is also quite normal... suicide is a sort of clean solution to everything, and it often helps just to have such a solution. Religious people have paradise instead - which is of course the illusion that everything goes on and on forever, only much better.
Trolls are hard to define. If someone behaves normal 2/3rds of the time, he/she/it probably isn't one...
 
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1964dodge

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Sep 19, 2018
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i'm one of the people that came here in pain a long time ago. I am trying to live but sometimes get close to ctb. but I have a stupid question. if we are being watched is it possible to get charged with the complicity of a suicide if we say the wrong thing or are we sufficiently anonymous? I know this may just be paranoia due to recent events
 
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Jul 2, 2019
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i'm one of the people that came here in pain a long time ago. I am trying to live but sometimes get close to ctb. but I have a stupid question. if we are being watched is it possible to get charged with the complicity of a suicide if we say the wrong thing or are we sufficiently anonymous? I know this may just be paranoia due to recent events

I purposely try not too say too much, and try to only speak about myself, because I worry of that too. That gray area freaks me out. I definitely don't need to alert my spouse to any of this with a welfare visit, even though I have no imminent plans to ctb. I doubt I've raised any red flags, but who knows.
Just now, per some of the posts by members regarding privacy online, I signed up for Protonmail and am using that as my email here, and also using a vpn. It's crappy, because it's free, and I can't afford to pay for one, at least without raising questions with my husband.
If you don't mention anything inherently illegal, and don't outright tell/direct someone to ctb, you may be ok, and are just here for research purposes. Also, I suppose it depends heavily on your countries laws, and of the victims.
I could be wrong, so hopefully those more informed will answer you.
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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Oct 8, 2018
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i'm one of the people that came here in pain a long time ago. I am trying to live but sometimes get close to ctb. but I have a stupid question. if we are being watched is it possible to get charged with the complicity of a suicide if we say the wrong thing or are we sufficiently anonymous? I know this may just be paranoia due to recent events

That's a good question... admins say they keep no records, but they are running a server and I have no idea if they're running it on their own premises (unlikely), there's usually web hosts and ISPs involved, and of course three-digit agencies can always have hardware-access to all our computers most of the time.
This is all possible, so the question is if it's feasible = hard to answer, we have to guess. Next question would be is it likely, in the sense of worth their time ?
Probably not... I'm personally very irritated by the fact that this forum does not allow us to delete our accounts. That is highly suspicious.
I purposely try not too say too much, and try to only speak about myself, because I worry of that too. That gray area freaks me out. I definitely don't need to alert my spouse to any of this with a welfare visit, even though I have no imminent plans to ctb. I doubt I've raised any red flags, but who knows.
Just now, per some of the posts by members regarding privacy online, I signed up for Protonmail and am using that as my email here, and also using a vpn. It's crappy, because it's free, and I can't afford to pay for one, at least without raising questions with my husband.
If you don't mention anything inherently illegal, and don't outright tell/direct someone to ctb, you may be ok, and are just here for research purposes. Also, I suppose it depends heavily on your countries laws, and of the victims.
I could be wrong, so hopefully those more informed will answer you.

...illegal being a flexible term, suicide is illegal mostly in Muslim countries (in Europe likely not before 2030), but certain drugs are illegal in many. Then there's the possibility that kids might be here posing as adults and we could unwittingly be giving them advice. It would be best posting advice in neutral public posts and not answering too many questions.
 
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I feel compelled to respond to people's questions if only to say "As a result of causes this usually helpful forum is currently very tense, and no one is likely to answer questions like yours. Please try the List of Resources/google/the supplier." I hope more if us can do that (well, maybe not in the demands for fentanyl-laced opium!) because it sure would be good to get back to the friendly and helpful atmosphere that made me want to hang out here.
 
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Joannf

Joannf

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I feel compelled to respond to people's questions if only to say "As a result of causes this usually helpful forum is currently very tense, and no one is likely to answer questions like yours. Please try the List of Resources/google/the supplier." I hope more if us can do that (well, maybe not in the demands for fentanyl-laced opium!) because it sure would be good to get back to the friendly and helpful atmosphere that made me want to hang out here.

Well, sociopaths always destroy a good atmosphere (they're doing it world-wide right now, just watch how everything is being "deconstructed"), and the only way to counter that is to let them mentally starve and ignore them, as we unfortunately can't physically walk up to them and shoot them in the knee ;)
There are several ways to starve them.
The way you are doing it makes a lot of sense, it would lead the serious people to resources, save time, mess up the forum much less - and the serious people would simply come back and ask constructive questions. And prove their value by doing that.
 
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