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henry22

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Mar 31, 2023
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Looking for suggestions. Trying to go out clean and not burden anyone else with my affairs. Here's my list so far.
  • Withdraw from school.
  • Tie up obligations.
  • Sell furniture.
  • Donate all of my books and most of my clothes.
  • Burn my diaries.
  • Pay off all my bills.
  • Withdraw enough money to last me until I ctb.
  • Move all my money to my checking account and write a check to a family member.
  • Quit subscriptions.
  • Get rid of as much food as possible.
  • Get rid of as much stuff as possible and clean up as much as possible.
  • Write a letter including instructions about keys, apartment code, car location, passwords.
  • Factory reset electronics.
 
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BookPostponed

BookPostponed

an ideation regular
May 1, 2023
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I would also leave preferences on burial or related services/instructions for family members. Money can also be used for after death care such as those services. There's a great video made by ask a mortician on YouTube to make those preparations
 
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endofafoxtwo

endofafoxtwo

silly red fox guy
May 1, 2023
151
I would also write a formal timed-release letter to anybody in your life who has been good to you who you wish to not risk traumatizing with any sort of survivors guilt; let them know, if they exist, that your death wasn't their fault and they couldn't have prevented it, and that you appreciated the time you spent with them.
You also might want to be careful with how you transfer that money depending on who it is going to. Giving someone a large sum of money can actually frequemtly contribute to impulsuve and destructive behaviours (see how often lottery winners end up homeless and bankrupt)
 

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