the question of how to exist normally, having some thoughts

[magicalsarcoma]

My friend wanted to ask a question on this forum. As i understand it, the question is how he can ensure a normal existence for himself, having some thoughts in his head.
This thread is started by me, not by him, because he's not registered here (because he's too lazy to register and because he's too lazy to read/discuss something in English)
So next I'll translate his question, and then I'll translate your answers to him if someone answers here


"Hello everyone, my name is Valentin. My question is as follows: how, having emotional lability, can i learn to exist normally in society and benefit?

My notes:
Looking at people who have the legal right to dictate my culture, my language, my freedom, I'm sick of the fact that someone really needs it, needs such an attitude towards themselves. This need is unconscious, if you point it out to a person - he will prefer any criticism, but not this.

There is another side.

I'm absolutely not interested in changing anything in this world. I'm happy with everything and ready for anthrax right now, because I've received a positive response from the system that I hate.
Drug trip, reproductive function, indulgences from the state, a smile from a cashier at McDonald's who would like to work as a nutritionist.

My life has absolutely no purpose, and the realization of the possibility of getting a sense of achieving something instantly and without any effort or reason strongly stuck in my head.
But why invent a meaning for yourself if it's not even worth it?

The other side tells me that it's my direct duty to reach out to the unknown, and that neglecting this, I break the rhythm.

They gave me a choice, they gave me freedom. I'm free to choose a culture, to think, to die.
How could they let it happen, why did they drag me into this? Why is there a difference? Why the fuck should I both choose and follow? Why might personal property be appropriate? Why did I have a chance to be born? WHY ME?

So I fell into a trap.
I can shout for help as much as I want, but my words are worthless, because I don't know anything, I'm an impostor, take my passport away from me."

after that, this dude wrote to me: "All I can come to is living for the sake of a good mood"
i said that, perhaps, pleasure is, in principle, the common goal of humanity, that maybe it's so for everyone
friend answered that it's awful, i asked why
he said "I can't express it. These are not words, but just leisure, I can't explain this feeling to you
probably it's a problem with my brain
there's a hole in it, dude"

 

[waitingforrest]

Excuse me if I don't fully understand the question. I find it quite hard to try to exist normally with all the things happening in life, it's all so absurd and confusing. The constant asking of why I am even here.

I'm sorry that I don't have any advice for existing normally with complex thoughts. But, it's okay to have thoughts like these, there is not a exact right or wrong way to think. Whatever you choose to do, do it for yourself, not for the 8expectations of others.

Existence is still something I have no idea on why I am here.

 

[magicalsarcoma]

Excuse me if I don't fully understand the question. I find it quite hard to try to exist normally with all the things happening in life, it's all so absurd and confusing. The constant asking of why I am even here.

I'm sorry that I don't have any advice for existing normally with complex thoughts. But, it's okay to have thoughts like these, there is not a exact right or wrong way to think. Whatever you choose to do, do it for yourself, not for the 8expectations of others.

Existence is still something I have no idea on why I am here.

Yes, this man's speech/thoughts are really intricate sometimes. I quite often ask him what he means, even though we speak the same language. He's kind of emotional enough, i guess

Answered:

"Thanks for your attention, my message is a shattered childhood expectation about growing up. I think it's not uncommon for children to think that adults know some truth of this world, the answer to all questions. Parents seem like god
However, in fact, growing up doesn't give any guarantees, it only takes them away. THIS looks nice, the other doesn't. This is decent, and that is not. The very fact that white does not exist without black. The very fact that the designation of these colors is your task, not your parent's.
I am envious of a group of people with a common and understandable problem. For example, the war in the country. Or shame for sexual orientation, or a new virus. A unifying sense of a certain problem.

But problems on the way to what?

Yes, this... maybe scares? No. Makes happy? No. It's NOTHING, and NOTHING characterizes nothing. So I just got up on the wrong foot! After all, I just get sad, but....
What's the difference? Where should I go? I can only rely on the needs of my body.

And when you open some doors, you want to close them and forget, but there's no point in that anymore :)"