The girl of my dreams got taken

[Ednospatient]

The girl I've been lusting over for like 3 years is now taken. I'm just fucking sad but thankfully my SN came in the mail today.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I think the stat is that she'll get taken four to eight times before "settling down". This quote seems fitting:

 

[FuneralCry]

I can imagine it must be painful to have to go through that. Anyway, I hope you find peace. At least you have a way to exit this life.

 

[Panna]

worst part is only you will suffer over this while she blissfully moves forward in life. Poor guy, hopefully the feeling won't last long.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

The thing is you can't project your own desires onto others. If this person did not even know of your intentions perhaps even existence for 3 years, why do you feel sad or entitled over her?

Plus she didn't get taken. She chose to be with someone she liked. I get lonely too but I do not form attachments with people who don't even care that I am alive. That is just unhealthy.

 

[TriggerHappy]

The thing is you can't project your own desires onto others. If this person did not even know of your intentions perhaps even existence for 3 years, why do you feel sad or entitled over her?

Plus she didn't get taken. She chose to be with someone she liked. I get lonely too but I do not form attachments with people who don't even care that I am alive. That is just unhealthy.

Harsh!
♧ Your comments even inspite of the destructive power of unrequited love. Acknowledge we all been there baby, it burns.

Whats unhealthy is if there was stalking, stealing panties off her washing line, watching her through the window while she sleeps, stealing her notebooks to have her writing, stalking her on Instagram, friending her mom, setting up the basement with a bucket and bed. Thats unhealthy.
Loving her from afar is hurtful, but beautiful. At least he can love.
And is a gentleman in loss (I myself would hurt the object of her desire), ok thats unhealthy.

 

[Panna]

The thing is you can't project your own desires onto others. If this person did not even know of your intentions perhaps even existence for 3 years, why do you feel sad or entitled over her?

It's less feeling entitled over another human being as a belonging and more kicking oneself over not making the move and acting sooner, forever having the thought of what could have been. It's haunting and awful. It's unhealthy projecting, but it's a way to cope. I have seen it first hand, missed my chance and seeing her giggling in the store with hubby while they mess around during shopping or hanging out in the restaurant on campus made me want to just jump into traffic then see it another minute longer.

 

[eternalmelancholy]

It's less feeling entitled over another human being as a belonging and more kicking oneself over not making the move and acting sooner, forever having the thought of what could have been. It's haunting and awful. It's unhealthy projecting, but it's a way to cope.

It is extremely unhealthy to think like this. You are only thinking from your own perspective and not taking in consideration their feelings. In the past there was a stranger who thought we were destined for each other. It is very unnerving and scary when you are on the receiving end of unwanted attention.

I would even go as far as saying unwanted attention can be a form of sexual harassment. But no one wants to admit this until it happens to them. Maybe I am being harsh but I am not lying either.

 

[forgotten15]

I am sorry you are going through this, i know the pain of unrequited love can be unbearable. I wish time brings you healing and peace.

 

[TriggerHappy]

It is extremely unhealthy to think like this. You are only thinking from your own perspective and not taking in consideration their feelings. In the past there was a stranger who thought we were destined for each other. It is very unnerving and scary when you are on the receiving end of unwanted attention.

I would even go as far as saying unwanted attention can be a form of sexual harassment. But no one wants to admit this until it happens to them. Maybe I am being harsh but I am not lying either.

I know very very well what its like to receive wierdness.
I've been stalked by a predator ex and i.c.u hit with a hammer.
everytime he sees me when he hugs me he touches the scar on the back of my head. Thats fucked up. We still 'friends' cos he has sum1 new. And keep your enemies close...
And had students stalk me (almost getting me fired when I rejected them...) yes its a mindfuck and paranoia inflicting.
We can't control what's outside our skins. And being harsh with them, may not induce wanted results...
Maybe the middle way is the way...

 

[Mashedout]

Everything in this life requires effort. If you took 3 years and did nothing, what did you really expect? Her to just magically read your thoughts? Cmon. That's the harsh truth. Learn from it and find someone else. There are nearly 8 BILLION people on the planet now. There are more like her out there.

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

Everything in this life requires effort. If you took 3 years and did nothing, what did you really expect? Her to just magically read your thoughts? Cmon. That's the harsh truth. Learn from it and find someone else. There are nearly 8 BILLION people on the planet now. There are more like her out there.

And all those 8 billion will be dead in 100 years . So does anything matter? Not imo.

 

[taylor321]

Your first mistake was thinking a woman has any value

You go on 4chan, refer to yourself as "redpilled", and have a porn addiction... don't you? Only thing missing is the pepe the frog profile picture, ur slacking.

 

[avoid_slow_death]

Harsh!
♧ Your comments even inspite of the destructive power of unrequited love. Acknowledge we all been there baby, it burns.

Whats unhealthy is if there was stalking, stealing panties off her washing line, watching her through the window while she sleeps, stealing her notebooks to have her writing, stalking her on Instagram, friending her mom, setting up the basement with a bucket and bed. Thats unhealthy.
Loving her from afar is hurtful, but beautiful. At least he can love.
And is a gentleman in loss (I myself would hurt the object of her desire), ok thats unhealthy.

You're fucking awesome. Straightforward and to the point and also, great argument and funny af to boot!

 

[$nowLeopard]

You go on 4chan, refer to yourself as "redpilled", and have a porn addiction... don't you? Only thing missing is the pepe the frog profile picture, ur slacking.

Yes I need to heckin touch grass

 

[avoid_slow_death]

everytime he sees me when he hugs me he touches the scar on the back of my head.

That is super fucking creepy...

 

[Mashedout]

And all those 8 billion will be dead in 100 years . So does anything matter? Not imo.

By that logic he shouldn't care about her in the first place if nothng mattered. He did though so I'm replying from that perspective.

 

[Scribble Fan]

Ah, unrequited love. I feel your pain, OP. I really do.

 

[Enabran255]

The girl I've been lusting over for like 3 years is now taken. I'm just fucking sad but thankfully my SN came in the mail today.

I'm sorry, that really is the worst feeling in the world and the most potent suicide fuel there is, in my experience. I've gone through my own twisted, special hell with that, and if I had had the knowledge and means at the time, I wouldn't still be alive today for sure.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Yes I need to heckin touch grass

1. Haircut.
2. Shower.
3. Respect.

setting up the basement with a bucket and bed.

Bucket is sub-optimal.

 

[Deleted member 8975]

Im sorry u lost love of your life. I did too. In an insane way i hope she is sooooo happy and being fullfilled everyday and is wildly in love. She deserves it and nothing but happiness. I love her so much.

 

[Forgotten]

Your happiness shouldn't depend on someone else.
Take the bus because you really wanna take it, not because of a woman.
If you guys were interacting for 3 years and things never went anywhere, then it was never going to work anyway, so just let it go.

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

You go on 4chan, refer to yourself as "redpilled"

Fuck that. This dude needs to swallow the blackpill and fast. It might just save his life.

 

[PinkSakura]

I hope your reason for taking SN isn't primarily because of this girl. Throwing your life away over romance is a waste, you can and will get over her. In 5 years time you'll likely be thankful that you had nothing to do with her.

 

[lonerclown666]

love in this world dont exist its all superficial i learned that lesson long time ago

 

[Ednospatient]

I hope your reason for taking SN isn't primarily because of this girl. Throwing your life away over romance is a waste, you can and will get over her. In 5 years time you'll likely be thankful that you had nothing to do with her.

my main reasons are my depression and eating disorder, plus tens of other smaller issues that may seem irrelevant but it all snowballs into one massive problem.

 

[disasterplant]

In the same situation right now and while it does hurt, eventually the pain subsides and just turns into numbness and indifference, much like how a wound turns into a scab.

 

[Lucifer'sRight]

Fuck that. This dude needs to swallow the blackpill and fast. It might just save his life.

he doesn't necessarily consider himself ugly
he's not necessarily a he
hypergamy might have had absolutely nothing to do with the situation
the girl doesn't necessarily date a "CHAD" now
so, no.
not every human dating situation is a conspiracy against men.
it just isn't.
you're saying it to everyone, maybe just create a thread, so we can argue openly?

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

he doesn't necessarily consider himself ugly
he's not necessarily a he
hypergamy might have had absolutely nothing to do with the situation
the girl doesn't necessarily date a "CHAD" now
so, no.
not every human dating situation is a conspiracy against men.
it just isn't.
you're saying it to everyone, maybe just create a thread, so we can argue openly?

Impossible to debate the bluepill 'cause it's all a dumb lie.

 

[avoid_slow_death]