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Khaos
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- Dec 2, 2019
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I hear this all the time by pro-lifers who are so adamant against people who choose to CTB, saying that they'll "definitely" regret it.
They'll use a few people's attempted (as they'll call it "failed) suicide and the said people personally regretting it as "evidence" that everyone who attempts it will ultimately regret it.
Yes, many who attempt it do regret it, but that's very personal. How can these people speak for each of our unique thoughts, feelings, and experiences?
For example, I am living proof that I do not regret that I tried to take my life. No, what I do regret is that I let you kind of people catch me in the act, and as a result, make me feel ashamed for being "ungrateful". I mean, I still committed more attempts anyway, but ouch.
These are the same people who wonder why suicidal people feel as if barely anyone can understand them. But these are also the same people come up with biased "research" to negate what many who are suicidal are genuinely feeling (e.g. "93% said they regret it/they didn't actually mean to/it was just for attention).
Please, do not bother trying to understand us if you are actively avoiding exploring our true feelings and intents.
They'll use a few people's attempted (as they'll call it "failed) suicide and the said people personally regretting it as "evidence" that everyone who attempts it will ultimately regret it.
Yes, many who attempt it do regret it, but that's very personal. How can these people speak for each of our unique thoughts, feelings, and experiences?
For example, I am living proof that I do not regret that I tried to take my life. No, what I do regret is that I let you kind of people catch me in the act, and as a result, make me feel ashamed for being "ungrateful". I mean, I still committed more attempts anyway, but ouch.
These are the same people who wonder why suicidal people feel as if barely anyone can understand them. But these are also the same people come up with biased "research" to negate what many who are suicidal are genuinely feeling (e.g. "93% said they regret it/they didn't actually mean to/it was just for attention).
Please, do not bother trying to understand us if you are actively avoiding exploring our true feelings and intents.