Fire&Ash
Experienced
- Apr 15, 2020
- 233
I need advice. My dad and I got into a fight today. I told him I don't want to go to thanksgiving because I don't feel like welcomed or included in holiday feast with extended family (his side). I should mention I feel like he prefers his siblings and kids over me. My sisters and extended family make me feel wrong and I began to dread holidays now. I told him I'm not going and they can go without me. He got angry at me obviously. My mom's birthday is also around thanksgiving and will be celebrated at the same time. I don't want to see my sisters or extended because I feel horrible around them but he doesn't want to see that. He wants us to be a "family" and he is basically making it out that it's in my head and I'm a hater or something. I can't convince him and I don't know what to do. I feel like i will have to go along with it but I don't want to talk to any of them and be in the same room as my sisters. What do I do?
