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OrangeLounge

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Would I have to increase the dosage? I think I'm about 3-6 weeks along but I don't really know yet. It makes sense, logically, to add more grams based on the weight of the embryo. Unless it's too small to even worry about.
 
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S1mpleme

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Why on earth would you take SN if you're pregnant?
 
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Racee

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Think my avatar has the perfect look for this situation
 
Jean4

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I'm not trying to stop you, but would you like to talk about whatever is going on?
 
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OrangeLounge

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Why on earth would you take SN if you're pregnant?
I want to CTB, thought that was clear.
I'm not trying to stop you, but would you like to talk about whatever is going on?
I don't really have a support system and I've already been considering it, so this is kind of just the push I need I guess.
 
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I want to CTB, thought that was clear.

I don't really have a support system and I've already been considering it, so this is kind of just the push I need I guess.

I was just curious (not trying to stop to be clear I respect whatever you choose), but are you wanting to CTB just because you're pregnant? I ask just as there could possibly be other options.

GRanted you said you've thought of it for a while... but didn't know if it was all linked
 
Jean4

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I want to CTB, thought that was clear.

I don't really have a support system and I've already been considering it, so this is kind of just the push I need I guess.
The reason you want to CTB is because you do not have a support system? Are you scared about dealing with a baby alone?
 
OrangeLounge

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I was just curious (not trying to stop to be clear I respect whatever you choose), but are you wanting to CTB just because you're pregnant? I ask just as there could possibly be other options.

GRanted you said you've thought of it for a while... but didn't know if it was all linked
I'm going to lose my relationship because of it and that's all I really have. I'm only 19 so I can't really deal with a baby
 
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None from you. I've heard enough vitriol from my friends, but thank you for the apparent offer.

I'm going to lose my relationship because of it and that's all I really have. I'm only 19 so I can't really deal with a baby
Then why don't you get an abortion? That's the part I don't understand.
 
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Would I have to increase the dosage? I think I'm about 3-6 weeks along but I don't really know yet. It makes sense, logically, to add more grams based on the weight of the embryo. Unless it's too small to even worry about.

3 to 6 weeks is not yet with life.. at 24 weeks the embryo is pure life! Consider you are deciding for 2 lives now, instead of your own.
In my country abortion is allowed before 24 weeks. After that the embryo is a livin' child..
I wish you all the best and good luck. Take care.
 
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Soulstax

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I think 25 gms is more than enough for you and a baby tbh. It's a huge lethel amount. Maybe go up to 30gm?

To people complaining, pro choice means the right to choose to terminate one's own life and the life of a being that is using their body to support it.
 
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I'm going to lose my relationship because of it and that's all I really have. I'm only 19 so I can't really deal with a baby

Similar to what @Jean4 said, are abortions not available in your country? I mean regardless, technically the guide would take care of it (the links on the forum).
 
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This one is always going to be contentious. This is a Pro-Choice forum, so please respect that and the OP. If its going to trigger strong feelings and emotions, just pass it by please.
 
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NoDream

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I think you are doing the embryo a favor. Who would want to grow up in such a horrible world?

Anyhow, if you change your mind you are now in the right period for an abortion, but i know that in the USA its both expensive and painful to go through.

I would double the dose of SN, first normal dose, then one more glass because the pregnancy could make you puke more easy.
 
Quarky00

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Dec 17, 2019
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Too small, no need to increase dosage... x3 practice will be fatal :) Assume you know but feel free to ask

Your wish to ctb is clear -- and acceptable :hug: I offer no solution or advice just support. I understand that raising a child or abortion at the age of 19 are both a shock, coupled with the fact that you will be losing your entire life (relationship). It sounds disastrous. Sorry things got messed up :|

Anyway, how are you feeling about that? Have you planned it? What's going on in that relationship?
 
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MsMaudlin

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At 3-6 weeks the embryo is next to nothing. If you don't want to go down the abortion route I don't think you'll need much more SN to CTB.
I wish you all the best in your decision, its a tricky one.
Peace and love ❤ xx
And we are always here to listen, without judgement x
 
Supersadmommy90

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It's been said, but 3-6 weeks is so early in pregnancy as to not even be a consideration in terms of SN dosage.

Having said that.

19 is a perfect age to become a mother, why wouldn't it be? There is nothing, at all, wrong with young motherhood. The social stigma attached to teen pregnancy is very antiquated, prudish, and out of touch with the biological reality of these things. At 19 you are in your childbearing prime. I became a mother at 21 myself, and in fact now I wish I had started a few years younger. So, I'm actually a little bit jealous of your opportunity, truth be told.

By no means am I trying to impose if your mind is made up, I respect that. I just have a difficult time understanding what is so wrong with your circumstances. I want you to know, how many very depressed and unhappy, 30 and 40 something year old women there are out there who wasted their childbearing prime because they "weren't ready". Looking back in hindsight, I'm sure many of them wish they could have made the "mistake" of being in the situation you are in right now.

Being pregnant is a natural antidepressant, the high estrogen levels have a noticeable mood boosting effect. I can say honestly, the times I have been pregnant have been the happiest times in my life, whatever else was wrong in my life at the time didn't matter, because I was pregnant.

I wish you all the best regardless of what you choose, we're all here for you in any case.
 
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Backwood_tilt

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I just have a difficult time understanding what is so wrong with your circumstances.

I think OP is also having a difficult time, and that they deserve our compassion and understanding in spite of how challenging that might be for others.

We owe it to them to try our best and be empathetic - and as @SinisterKid says, just pass this thread by if not.
 
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I think OP is also having a difficult time, and that they deserve our compassion and understanding in spite of how challenging that might be for others.

We owe it to them to try our best and be empathetic - and as @SinisterKid says, just pass this thread by if not.


I was being empathetic, I stated that I did not mean to impose if her mind was made up. Why would I pass by the opportunity to help her see her situation from a different perspective if that could help her? She is an adult and she can come to her own conclusions regarding my well intentioned two cents, and pass it by herself if it isn't helpful. I'm sure clutching pearls on her behalf isn't the most empathetic or understanding thing one could be doing, just saying.
 

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