Universe gives me this longing for intimacy, connection and sex. It is hormonal and from what I've learned isn't going to go away. I have no outlet for these feelings and no way to create them. The impossibility to realize them and the uncontrollable presence of the desire creates an asymmetry or dissonance. I have tried to cope with these feelings for 20+ years. I would do anything to stop the conflict. I would be willing to stop the conflict by destroying my physical brain, where it seems to exist.
I can relate to this, about 7 years for me. Out of curiosity why is it an impossibility for you, if you care to share?
PI3.14
Looking for a way out
- Oct 4, 2024
- 151
I can definitely relate. I rather die than live alone
Renato
Member
- Jun 11, 2025
- 22
Same for me.
At least that's how I feel and statistically like millions of men feel nowadays. And yes, I presume that all of us in this thread are heterosexual males not because I'm biased but because I trust statistics.
I am not the OP but making an educated guess I would say, aside from specific details, that the word impossibility refers to the awareness of being disposable and of perceived little value: once you get that mindset you rightfully consider impossible to establish an intimate connection with a woman.
At least that's how I feel and statistically like millions of men feel nowadays. And yes, I presume that all of us in this thread are heterosexual males not because I'm biased but because I trust statistics.
Saponification
A piece of nothing
- Jun 27, 2024
- 92
I can definitely relate. The feeling of being isolated and unable to form intimate relationships with the preferred sex is agonizing indeed. I hate this biology that programmed me to seek sex and intimacy. This is also one of the reasons I wish I were a non-sentient AI or something.
Dejected 55
Wizard
- May 7, 2025
- 633
