My girlfriend of four years and I had a horrible breakup and fall-out, which was only worsened when i found out she cheated on me with one of her friends. They've been dating for a couple months now, and I can't stop thinking about them going out, kissing, spending time together, having awesome sex, doing all the things I used to do with her. Honestly I find it absolutely fucking repulsive, it's life ruining it really is. Before I discovered the cheating, I tried my best to remain as friends and she would often offer to ''help'' me, but everytime I attempted to do so her response would be dry at best, and sometimes nonexistant. Hell, she would sometimes bring up her new fucking guy and talk about him as if it had anything to do with our conversation. She hasn't cared about my mental health whatsoever after the breakup, she does not give a fuck about me or my life.
I've always been a very depressive and mentally ill person, and of course the breakup (and especially the months of absolute carelessness that ensued after it happened) has left me even more broken than usual. A lot of cancelled suicide attempts, self-harm, pushing my friends away, making a fucking sactioned suicide account, and having tons of sexist and misogynystic thoughts (it's stupid self-hatred really, as I'm a trans girl). Not only because I'm sad it's over, but also because she does NOT care, as I've said before.
But a few days ago I had a pretty clever idea, if I say so myself. I'll just force her to care!
I'd kill myself as the ultimate sacrifice, an attempt at revenge, and a great punishment for cheating on me, and especially for not caring at all until after I killed myself. People like this only tend to care after they realize how grave their mistake is, and I'm sure this is what would make her wake up in that regard. It'd scar her FOREVER. I don't want to hurt her physically at all (though I'll admit I've had dreams of slapping her boyfriend, I HATE that guy), but emotional damage is something she absolutely deserves after all she put me through, and I want to give it to her so bad. Calling her horrible things is not enough, saying she's a slut and a disgusting whore is not enough, saying I hate her is NOT enough. I want to seriously hurt her and hurting myself REAL bad is one hell of a way to do it. Just letting those two dumbasses know I killed myself BECAUSE of them... it's just, wow. Gives me a rush just thinking about it.
What do you guys think? Have you ever had similar thoughts like this?