something kind of good happened today but its depressed me and made me even more suicidal.

[HermitLonerGuy]

So i just got back from meeting a woman i been chatting to online. Shes just as pretty as her pics and we spent about an hour and a half together.
We got on well and we chat and video call often. I feel im just wasting her time , i have a micropenis and its pathetic.
When i went to see her i wore long sleeves shirt and long over my pants as i have no bulge.


im afraid she will reject me , i dont blame her at all. Now im back home and she is too, i dont have the face to even answer her calls or message.
I didnt expect it to work out. I cant tell her about my penis i just can't , and even if she does accept me i wont allow it.
No women deserves this , im disgusted by it myself let alone a woman who settles for me.
Im not good its not good ,im only good enough for being a womans Slave, nothing else, im a freak that cant have PIV.

This is too selfish to make a woman be with me. I just want to die, i dont even know why i tried in the first place.
all i deserve is to be taken advantage of by women.
Im a sexless eunuch that isnt a man, im meant to die.
Id never be comfortable and happy in a relationship with my disgusting deformity id just be a shame to her.
I have a handsome face but i dont offer what is expected of a man.


I need to ctb soon.

 

[Minibosterita]

Some women like it though!
And if someone loves you its not settling at all. They don't love you despite whatever you think your flaws might be, but they love all of you for who you are.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I wouldn't worry about it, open your mind to the possibilities, of which there are many. I would look on the bright side that she enjoys your company.

 

[Raven2]

You dont deserve to be taken advantage at all. She maybe very understanding about the issue you have. Why not give her a chance if you two get on really well.

 

[stermc]

So i just got back from meeting a woman i been chatting to online. Shes just as pretty as her pics and we spent about an hour and a half together.
We got on well and we chat and video call often. I feel im just wasting her time , i have a micropenis and its pathetic.
When i went to see her i wore long sleeves shirt and long over my pants as i have no bulge.


im afraid she will reject me , i dont blame her at all. Now im back home and she is too, i dont have the face to even answer her calls or message.
I didnt expect it to work out. I cant tell her about my penis i just can't , and even if she does accept me i wont allow it.
No women deserves this , im disgusted by it myself let alone a woman who settles for me.
Im not good its not good ,im only good enough for being a womans Slave, nothing else, im a freak that cant have PIV.

This is too selfish to make a woman be with me. I just want to die, i dont even know why i tried in the first place.
all i deserve is to be taken advantage of by women.
Im a sexless eunuch that isnt a man, im meant to die.
Id never be comfortable and happy in a relationship with my disgusting deformity id just be a shame to her.
I have a handsome face but i dont offer what is expected of a man.


I need to ctb soon.

Look, I am sorry you feel this way but I can tell you some things as a woman.
First of all, the fact that you have a small penis does not make you less of a man (whatever this means). It does not mean you don't deserve to be loved, to have sex or to be desired by someone else. You are not defined by the size of your genitalia (if you had a huge penis, you wouldn't be a better man, that's what I mean).
Secondly, there are a lot of women out there. Some of them prefer big penises, some other prefer small penises, and some of them are like me: they don't really care. Like, really. I don't care about that. And I know my personal preferences are not going to change the way you feel about this, but I just want you to know that people are different and they like different things.
Somewhere there is an amazing woman who will accept you the way you are and actually love the way you look.
Being a good, funny and loyal man is much more important and attractive than having a big penis.
Also, I dated for 5 years a guy who had an average size penis and I only had, like, 4 orgasms throughout all the relationship. So… that's it (glad this site is anonymous lol)

 

[don't want it]

Just forgot about him please don't blame yourself please don't blame yourself there are garbage ppl , no humanity

 

[Forever Sleep]

Obviously I can't speak for all women and I know it likely won't help you but it's not something that would bother me. I've actually never had a relationship. Sorry to be crude but we don't need penis' to have fun.

I'm not trying to belittle how you feel saying that. I understand that it's an upsetting issue for you. Maybe it is important to some women but we're all different.

Honestly, if this girl is really nice and you want things to develop, I hope you will give it a try. Do you know if she has had many boyfriends before? I imagine it must feel accutely embarassing but I think- if it feels right at some point- you could try and confide in her.

You don't deserve to be treated badly by anyone because of how you were born. Like I say- maybe some women would mind but not all I expect. People are all different shapes and sizes. The fact the you actually care about pleasing her I imagine is better than some guys who only seem to care about their own needs.

Really for a lot of women though- I'm sure your personality is more important. (At least- I'd hope so.) If sex is still a big hang up for you- learn about the female anatomy and try and relax- I'm sure there are ways round the issue.

Anyway, I wish you all the very best. I hope this relationship works out. Take care.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Dude, I'd say pursue it and see where it goes. It's better to actually know where something goes, as opposed to just guessing where you believe it will go. Even if it goes as you believe, it is still better to know and not have the doubts lingering in your mind.