Venting Some parents are out of their fucking minds!

[Slenderman]

My mom sees I've isolated myself from pretty much anyone but she doesn't know I'm suicidal. However, my sister have struggled with self- harm for a while and mom found out. She literally just beat my sister all night long saying how she's crazy and ungrateful of the gift God gave her and all types of shit. Like bitch I think you're the one who's crazy though?? Your child is obviously having a hard time and you abuse her instead of helping, wow. I was in my room just listening and crying man I felt so sorry and angry that night but didn't know what to do.

 

[HappyEnding]

Go give your sister support. She needs you more than anything right now :(

 

[inconsequential]

Seconded; comfort her. You're still safe to her— your mother isn't.

 

[Severen]

And then if one day your sister CTBs... It's the fault of this community... /S

 

[Slenderman]

And then if one day your sister CTBs... It's the fault of this community... /S

She (mom) literally blamed a so-called Blue Whale Challenge (it is said to be a "game" where kids have to self harm for 50 days and then kill themselves) for a suicide in my high-school, so if she ever finds out about this forum I would NOT be surprised to hear her saying that.

 

[Mstrflshr]

Cps?

 

[Jolene40]

Your mum probably immediately feels somehow responsible and the shame and hurt of this is manifested as anger. Your sister needs support and so does your mum so she can help you both. You can probably only help your sister right now

 

[DoomedxFromBirth]

I can relate to this. I isolate myself when Im at home because my father really doesnt understand what anxiety/depression and being suicidal is. Whenever any of those things are uttered he goes on a rant about about you can heal yourself and the more negative you are the more worse it'll be. My brother one day literally said he felt like killing himself and he said he didn't know what to tell him.

I isolate myself now cause no one can handle what Im going through here, only myself. I recall a time years ago when I lived with my dad somewhere else and he was in a dark place and I ended up finding his suicide notes. Now he acts like a motivational speaker that doesnt understand what depression is. My brother and sister now are suicidal and hes blind to it.

I've tried my best to help as much as I can but it puts a lot of stress on me and I get stress migraines. So now. Ive just gotten to the point where I just sit in the dark on my days off dealing with panic attacks constantly.


Try to be there for your sibling as much as you can. Dont extert yourself. The worst thing they can do is feel alone. They are already trapped in a house with someone that is supposed to be caring for them, not doing what you mentioned. Which I feel really bad just reading it. Im sorry this is happening to you.

 

[Conflicted Cat]

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I have no words. Just why. I can't believe people like your mother exist. And then people will go along and blame things like this site. Tsk tsk tsk.