Discussion Society's obsession with sex

[slyna]

I mean it's hard not to see obsession.
Song lyrics (everywhere), everyday talk etc.

No wonder people get tricked into getting kids (still no excuse for getting kids remember that)

They simply don't have the time to realize it before it's too late

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

I agree...there's no excuse for having/making/getting kids...though abortion is illegal some places...It's hard....too many struggling. Some people just want the experience of pregnancy, babies and aren't into it all. People are adults for so much longer than childhood. It can be a such a fucking nightmarish drag.

Sure some kids turn into fine people. But the future of the world is pretty shitty.

 

[slyna]

I agree...there's no excuse for having/making/getting kids...though abortion is illegal some places...It's hard....too many struggling. Some people just want the experience of pregnancy, babies and aren't into it all. People are adults for so much longer than childhood. It can be a such a fucking nightmarish drag.

Sure some kids turn into fine people. But the future of the world is pretty shitty.

Like it's a small percentage who turns out fine really

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

Like it's a small percentage who turns out fine really

I guess. I mean everyone I know besides like 2 people have it pretty good or really good...I'm in the US...and I am totally sucking compared to everyone I know or really used to know.

 

[stygal]

Im annoyed by it too (if I choose to hang out with someone new I don't want to also have to worry about them wanting to f, I'd be much more laid back without this "issue") - for those who have/like/consent it's fine but it should be far less of a deal and just like @Alwaysbadtime said: there's no excuse for kids - you'll always create a whole new person with (potentially) lots of physical and mental discomfort

 

[Jumping_realms]

Yeah, 40% of children aren't even planned for.

I think that has much to do with our instinctive/primitive sexual drive after maturing, too, though.

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

Im annoyed by it too - for those who have/like/consent it's fine but it should be far less of a deal and just like @Alwaysbadtime said: there's no excuse for kids - you'll always create a whole new person with (potentially) lots of physical and mental discomfort

Physical, mental and/or financial. Money is needed for life. Lots of it.

 

[motel rooms]

Yeah, 40% of children aren't planned for.

The solution to this & countless other problems: mandatory large-scale gay orgies

 

[fastFWD]

ugh as someone who identifies as ace/demi i really don't understand society's obsession with sex. it's all around me and it bothers me. i can't even say what's on my mind without someone getting the wrong idea...

 

[stygal]

ugh as someone who identifies as ace/demi i really don't understand society's obsession with sex. it's all around me and it bothers me. i can't even say what's on my mind without someone getting the wrong idea...

Yes, I know the struggle...I actually would occasionally talk to men about hobbies and art and stuff but besides two very old acquaintances - I'm to uncomfortable to have even have a conversation with them (not that I am that keen on making contact but once in a while I'm like "that's a cool thing to do/say")

 

[fastFWD]

Yes, I know the struggle...I actually would occasionally talk to men about hobbies and art and stuff but besides two very old acquaintances - I'm to uncomfortable to have even have a conversation with them (not that I am that keen on making contact but once in a while I'm like "that's a cool thing to do/say")

yeah i totally know what you mean. i feel like im often being looked at like im just another shark coming at them it's uncomfortable tbh. i only have one long time female friend that i can really hang/talk with without having any of that shit to worry about; it is nice. anyhow nowadays i just don't try to reach out to normies anymore unless its an interesting topic to add to like you stated.

 

[Pisceslilith]

ugh as someone who identifies as ace/demi i really don't understand society's obsession with sex. it's all around me and it bothers me. i can't even say what's on my mind without someone getting the wrong idea...

I agree everything is so sexualized and it's so annoying.

 

[Jumping_realms]

The solution to this & countless other problems: mandatory large-scale gay orgies

I host gay sex parties and have a glory hole...I am doing my part!

 

[Neowise]

I don't get how people can watch movies like Ted or Deadpool where every joke is about penis, sex or masturbation. Like come on, it's maybe funny once or twice, but not for a whole 90 minutes.

What I also can't stand is the "sex sells" aspect of modern advertisement. Cars just have to be advertised with a half naked woman next to it. Or a gym. Or... Pepsi? Does anyone of you remember that spot where a guy drinks pepsi and then suddenly 2 women approach him and start making out? Wtf is the deal with that?

Look at this crap.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

People don't get tricked, they are simply not at war with their own genetic programming (unlike many suicidals and anti-natalists). The ads and song lyrics are made by people, not society.

 

[FuneralCry]

Yes, I agree that society is obsessed with this. The fact that I was born in the first place is the cause of all of my problems. People are bringing children into a world which has unlimited potential for suffering. The thing that I have a problem with is the fact that we lack a right to die which could make up for the fact that we were brought into this world without choice.

 

[Anonymous_A]

This is suicide discussion…off topics somewhere over there..
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[motel rooms]

I host gay sex parties and have a glory hole...I am doing my part!

Yes, heal the world, make it a better place, baby!

 

[come to dust]

I host gay sex parties and have a glory hole...I am doing my part!

lucky you. I'm one of those guys who is too ugly to get invited to those parties

 

[Jumping_realms]

lucky you. I'm one of those guys who is too ugly to get invited to those parties

You must not know how a glory hole works.

 

[motel rooms]

You must not know how a glory hole works.

 

[come to dust]

You must not know how a glory hole works.

I was referring to sex parties, I didn't mention anything about a glory hole.

 

[Hurt]

Sex is overrated.

 

[slyna]

Sex is overrated.

Depends on the pssy i would say

 

[Marktheghost]

I mean it's hard not to see obsession.
Song lyrics (everywhere), everyday talk etc.

No wonder people get tricked into getting kids (still no excuse for getting kids remember that)

They simply don't have the time to realize it before it's too late

You can't even state a preference for female friends without people thinking you're after sex. What's sex got to do with friendship?

 

[Gaybonez]

I mean it's hard not to see obsession.
Song lyrics (everywhere), everyday talk etc.

No wonder people get tricked into getting kids (still no excuse for getting kids remember that)

They simply don't have the time to realize it before it's too late

Sex is great.