mooncake
Student
- Aug 7, 2020
- 116
My SN arrived the a few days ago, and it has put me in a strange mood. I can't even describe it to be honest.
In a way it calmed me down, because I know, I have my emergency exit sitting on my shelf, but on the other hand I'm not 100% comfortable with the method.
Things arround me are further falling, but lately ive been torn between wanting to try certain things, but wanting to leave even more.
I've still managed to go out more again, which is on part out of necessity and in part, to mask how I really feel.
And my mask seem to fit pretty well. I was offered a job, and I'm considering taking it, just for some extra income, that I could spend on N. But taking the job would kinda mean scamming my coworkers, by making them rely on me, knowing I won't be around to finish the job.
I've also started talking to a few people, who seem to be into me. One has specifically expressed that he is looking for commitment, and while I told him that I know I don't want that. Didn't turn him off, as he still wants to talk to me and "see where things go". I need social interaction, but I dont want any feelings to be involved. Neither romantic, nor platonic. Am I abusing these guys to not drown in complete isolation? I definitely can't go back to my friends, in order to combat loneliness.
After making changes to my recent style of "living", I've also noticed many people, who abandoned me, slowly coming back. This bothers me. I always had to be the friend that picks up everyone's pieces and puts them back together. I always had to make myself emotionally available and of course accessible at all times, in case someone needed me.
But when I'm struggling, I gotta do it on my own. I can't even vent to anyone, because it's "good vibes only" I guess.
Now that I put effort into making it look like I'm better, they ask me how I am.
The thing is, that I don't remeber what friendships are supposed to feel like. I'm no longer interested in sharing anything with them, and I don't trust, that they actually want to hear what I have to say.
This has affected my preparations too. At first I planned on making multiple videos explaining certain things. Then I decided to just make one video and keep track of my thoughts by writing them down. All because I didn't want to anyonye to be tortured by unanswered questions. But now, I'm not sure, I even matter enough, for unanswred questions to a problem.
While pretty much all of the things and worries, that have kept me here so far, seem to dissolve, I still dont know how to proceed, as long as I'm not at peace with my method.
In a way it calmed me down, because I know, I have my emergency exit sitting on my shelf, but on the other hand I'm not 100% comfortable with the method.
Things arround me are further falling, but lately ive been torn between wanting to try certain things, but wanting to leave even more.
I've still managed to go out more again, which is on part out of necessity and in part, to mask how I really feel.
And my mask seem to fit pretty well. I was offered a job, and I'm considering taking it, just for some extra income, that I could spend on N. But taking the job would kinda mean scamming my coworkers, by making them rely on me, knowing I won't be around to finish the job.
I've also started talking to a few people, who seem to be into me. One has specifically expressed that he is looking for commitment, and while I told him that I know I don't want that. Didn't turn him off, as he still wants to talk to me and "see where things go". I need social interaction, but I dont want any feelings to be involved. Neither romantic, nor platonic. Am I abusing these guys to not drown in complete isolation? I definitely can't go back to my friends, in order to combat loneliness.
After making changes to my recent style of "living", I've also noticed many people, who abandoned me, slowly coming back. This bothers me. I always had to be the friend that picks up everyone's pieces and puts them back together. I always had to make myself emotionally available and of course accessible at all times, in case someone needed me.
But when I'm struggling, I gotta do it on my own. I can't even vent to anyone, because it's "good vibes only" I guess.
Now that I put effort into making it look like I'm better, they ask me how I am.
The thing is, that I don't remeber what friendships are supposed to feel like. I'm no longer interested in sharing anything with them, and I don't trust, that they actually want to hear what I have to say.
This has affected my preparations too. At first I planned on making multiple videos explaining certain things. Then I decided to just make one video and keep track of my thoughts by writing them down. All because I didn't want to anyonye to be tortured by unanswered questions. But now, I'm not sure, I even matter enough, for unanswred questions to a problem.
While pretty much all of the things and worries, that have kept me here so far, seem to dissolve, I still dont know how to proceed, as long as I'm not at peace with my method.