Should i ctb or wait

[Emilia]

in 5 years i can leave my home then i think my life will be much better.Should i wait and see? But 5 years is a long time.Any1 else in this situation ?

 

[shattered dreams]

Are you a teenager and still living with your parents? If that is the case, I would definitely wait and see.

Edit: I did not see your other thread when I wrote the above. Your situation is temporary and can definitely get better once you are on your own.

 

[Deleted member 847]

If you think your life can get better If you get rid of your dysfunctional family, then you should wait.

 

[chronicpainnomore]

Honestly, I would wait. Teenage years suck so bad and it seems like it will never end, but then one day, it's like BOOM you're an adult. It's so different. You look back on all those problems and they seem trivial.

 

[Sasha]

I think if you have the correct plan you definitely would have no problem leaving now, but if you could wait that would be better. I've tried running away, I had planned everything for two weeks. But at the last moment I didn't have guts to do it.

 

[Emilia]

Are you a teenager and still living with your parents? If that is the case, I would definitely wait and see.

Edit: I did not see your other thread when I wrote the above. Your situation is temporary and can definitely get better once you are on your own.

Hey I'm just worried that another 5 years of this shit and i'll be crazy.

 

[Emilia]

I think if you have the correct plan you definitely would have no problem leaving now, but if you could wait that would be better. I've tried running away, I had planned everything for two weeks. But at the last moment I didn't have guts to do it.

Hey.I was also thinking of running away.My friend lives with her dad and she was staying with her mother last weekend.Her mother lives in a different city.Her dad let me stay at his house.He is good to me.He brought me swimming,shopping,something to eat and then to the movies.Maybe i can stay there.

 

[Sasha]

Hey.I was also thinking of running away.My friend lives with her dad and she was staying with her mother last weekend.Her mother lives in a different city.Her dad let me stay at his house.He is good to me.He brought me swimming,shopping,something to eat and then to the movies.Maybe i can stay there.

Do your parents know about the place? I'll rather stay at a new place (I'd make sure it's safe) I think some good places would be Tibet, Kathmandu... Buddhist places are kind of safe compared to other places.

 

[Emilia]

Do your parents know about the place? I'll rather stay at a new place (I'd make sure it's safe) I think some good places would be Tibet, Kathmandu... Buddhist places are kind of safe compared to other places.

No my Father lives in a different country now and my mother is always drunk and i never bring friends to my house because i am to embarrassment.No none of my family know i have this friend she goes to a different school than me.Her father is really good to me when he brought me shopping he bought me a full outfit..He bought me a new top a dress shoes and even new underware :)
I don't have many nice clothes because we are poor.Some days i don't ven get to eat :(

 

[El Topo]

Hey.I was also thinking of running away.My friend lives with her dad and she was staying with her mother last weekend.Her mother lives in a different city.Her dad let me stay at his house.He is good to me.He brought me swimming,shopping,something to eat and then to the movies.Maybe i can stay there.

I'm sorry to hear about your family situation, but please think long and hard before running away. It could make things worse. I'm assuming you're a young girl (age 13?), and young girls who run away from home can end up in very bad situations. My ex-girlfriend from high school ran away because her family was a shitshow (molested by her dad's friend, mom was a religious nut), and things didn't turn out well.

Young girls who run away often end up homeless, addicted to drugs, selling their bodies, etc.

Even though your family is crazy, if you are physically safe in your current situation, I would recommend not CTBing because you will be able to escape them when you're older, age 16-18, depending on where you live.

 

[Emilia]

I'm sorry to hear about your family situation, but please think long and hard before running away. It could make things worse. I'm assuming you're a young girl (age 13?), and young girls who run away from home can end up in very bad situations. My ex-girlfriend from high school ran away because her family was a shitshow (molested by her dad's friend, mom was a religious nut), and things didn't turn out well.

Young girls who run away often end up homeless, addicted to drugs, selling their bodies, etc.

Even though your family is crazy, if you are physically safe in your current situation, I would recommend not CTBing because you will be able to escape them when you're older, age 16-18, depending on where you live.

Thank You El Topo but I have moved into my friends house now.I do not feel safe at my own house.My mum has drunk friends over every night.I have to lock my room every night because my sister steels stuff from me to sell so she can buy drugs.Same with my mum so she can buy drink.And i also lock it to keep my creep brother out.Also even to use the bathroom i have to check in there because my brother hid his phone in there to record me using the bathroom.I found his phone and when he wasn't at home i looked on his computer and found pictures and videos of me using the bathroom and shower WTH.I told my mum and when she eventually checked his computer he had everything moved so she doesn't believe me.I just have enough of this shit.

 

[Matt]

Yeah wait. I was a very happy person as a teenager. But I am 21 now and have completely changed into a different person for the worst. Once you have a fully grown adult brain, 20-22. I may have changed for the worst but you could end up getting happier as you get older. It is not worth the risk of doing at your age. It could be the worst mistake of your life. And family problems after all are always fixable.

 

[AntiLifeEric]

Gay. Existence is horror. It's best to end it before the truly bad stuff reaches you. We just gotta do it, right.

 

[Matt]

Gay. Existence is horror. It's best to end it before the truly bad stuff reaches you. We just gotta do it, right.

Sure but existence being horrible is completely subjective. There are people that truly despise life and those who love it. She could grow up to be either or. But being a teenager is a bad age to make that decision.

 

[Emilia]

Yeah wait. I was a very happy person as a teenager. But I am 21 now and have completely changed into a different person for the worst. Once you have a fully grown adult brain, 20-22. I may have changed for the worst but you could end up getting happier as you get older. It is not worth the risk of doing at your age. It could be the worst mistake of your life. And family problems after all are always fixable.

Hey Matt sorry to hear about your problems.I think i will be ok now i'm very happy to be staying at my friends house it is so much better here and she will be back on friday

 

[AntiLifeEric]

Sure but existence being horrible is completely subjective. There are people that truly despise life and those who love it. She could grow up to be either or. But being a teenager is a bad age to make that decision.

oof I thought that you started this thread. I got taken to the last reply, and didn't check upwards.

 

[AntiLifeEric]

Hey Matt sorry to hear about your problems.I think i will be ok now i'm very happy to be staying at my friends house it is so much better here and she will be back on friday

That's awesome!

 

[El Topo]

Thank You El Topo but I have moved into my friends house now.I do not feel safe at my own house.My mum has drunk friends over every night.I have to lock my room every night because my sister steels stuff from me to sell so she can buy drugs.Same with my mum so she can buy drink.And i also lock it to keep my creep brother out.Also even to use the bathroom i have to check in there because my brother hid his phone in there to record me using the bathroom.I found his phone and when he wasn't at home i looked on his computer and found pictures and videos of me using the bathroom and shower WTH.I told my mum and when she eventually checked his computer he had everything moved so she doesn't believe me.I just have enough of this shit.

Glad to hear that you're in a safer place now.

Your family sounds like a nightmare... especially your brother! WTF If you took his phone to the police, you could've had him arrested for having child pornography...

I hope everything works out. You're lucky to have a friend to live with.