I dont know where to start. Dont know why I'm even posting. Attempted overdose failed back in October after my wife is currently seeing an older man she met. Spent three weeks inpatient. First night home she went out with him..... I'm still living at home most days she still flirts/loves me but I know deep down it's just to keep me here until the house sales and she can drive. Every friday....like tonight she goes out with him. I've been told by him and his friends the stuff they've done and it kills me. I know I'm losing my job soon. My stepdaughters birthday is in two weeks them Thanksgiving and Christmas. Our finances are a mess. I'm tired I just want to sleep. I've read alot of the methods and I know I have to do this. Not sure what to do
I am so sorry to hear this. I am in the same boat as you. I recently joined here too to find answers on how to end the misery. I'm here if you need to chat.
Yeah that would be good...just dont know what to do anymore
Hiw can I message someone
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You will have to make at least 5 posts, after which time you will be allowed to send PM (private messages) to other members you wish to chat with. I'm sorry for your situation, lots of good people who can relate with you.
azucaramargo
Enlightened
- Sep 16, 2018
- 1,010
This sounds like torture. Why are your wife and this geezer tormenting you like this?
Taki
Specialist
- Jul 30, 2019
- 319
Wayfaerer
JFMSUF
- Aug 21, 2019
- 1,938
Death by feminism is an all too common but tragic way to go.
She says it's my fault I wasnt a good husband and I really feel like it is I'm sick shes out now and I'm begging her to just come home I'm pathetic
azucaramargo
Enlightened
- Sep 16, 2018
- 1,010
I'm sorry to talk out of turn, but I feel that she is sick. No one deserves this cruelty. I don't know how you're still in one piece.
I'm really not its killing me but th other stuff going on is bad also
howard
Experienced
- Sep 13, 2019
- 268
Hi, your situation sounds terrible. I have suffered something similar many years ago.
I can only really say think alot, then more..dont do any thing impulsively.
I am very pro choice and at the stage of setting a date, but you need to consider every other possible Avenue.
Death is forever and lives can turn around.
I wish you well whatever you do.
You can pm me if you like. I am no expert but have read a lot recently about methods. Mine will be SN soon . I have every thing ready. I have no other options, you may still have life opotunitys. It's the biggest decision of your life. Take time.
I can only really say think alot, then more..dont do any thing impulsively.
I am very pro choice and at the stage of setting a date, but you need to consider every other possible Avenue.
Death is forever and lives can turn around.
I wish you well whatever you do.
You can pm me if you like. I am no expert but have read a lot recently about methods. Mine will be SN soon . I have every thing ready. I have no other options, you may still have life opotunitys. It's the biggest decision of your life. Take time.
I've been living this nightmare for a month now every friday is torture
Why don't you leave her ?
You can learn to become a stronger person, so you don't tolerate any rubbish from people.....
If you need any help/advice then feel free to PM me.
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You can learn to become a stronger person, so you don't tolerate any rubbish from people.....
If you need any help/advice then feel free to PM me.
To gain "PM" rights, you can play some of the games under the "offtopic" section.
HitchHiker
Student
- Jun 23, 2019
- 140
I'm sorry you are going through this, it must be torture for you. Can you move out? Do you have family you could stay with that will support you through this? A break up is such a hard thing to go through without it being rubbed in your face. As Howard said above, things can turn around but it takes time. Please try and get yourself out of that environment to give you some chance to heal before doing anything rash. Sending hugs x
