reasons i shouldnt ctb

[ganpres37]

i'm thinking abt hanging myself sometime after christmas, but i don't want to hurt my girlfriend. i love her too much. what should i do? should i just do it?

 

[xBones]

this website is made for people who want to kill themselves. i dont think anyone will force you to do anything, but if youre considering other options this website isnt for you

 

[ganpres37]

this website is made for people who want to kill themselves. i dont think anyone will force you to do anything, but if youre considering other options this website isnt for you

i do want to and intend to kill myself, just unsure of a few things atm.

 

[xBones]

i do want to and intend to kill myself, just unsure of a few things atm.

sorry if i came off rude, but i know what you mean. for months ive been debating because i didnt want to hurt my [now ex] girlfriend/family, but more recently i have been getting over it. i do hope you find your answers though

 

[Donewith_]

this website is made for people who want to kill themselves.

Not for them alone. I mean this isn't a pro-suicide forum. But a pro-choice forum. More like a support group. If you decide to ctb, people respect your choice, support you to make it go well . If you want to give life a chance, they welcome your choice, hope you'll recover soon. And also some hang around to help people out .

 

[Aesthler]

There's nothing wrong with getting help, like the above stated this is more like a support group. I think we're all feeling pretty hopeless and at the end of our rope. Nobody should judge you negatively for trying to better your life if that's what you want.

 

[LifeSick]

I don't feel comfortable giving you reasons to die or to live. I don't know how you feel and what you are going through, and I don't know how you feel about your girlfriend. If she loves you she will be hurt if you CTB. This is such a personal choice, only you can decide for yourself. Can you talk to her about these feelings, or do you think she couldn't understand you at all?
As you know, if you are successful you can only make this choice once, so if I were you I would spend a good time thinking about your feelings and what other options you have.

 

[worldexploder]

I, like all in here I assume, respect any decision you make. Does your gf know you're suicidal?

 

[Schopenhauer]

Relationships always make things harder. No easy answers here.

 

[Threads]

I am closing this thread.

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